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GAhostage
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Member Since 04/08/2008 15:01:12
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Gender: Female
City: Savannah
State: Georgia
A little about me: I am 38 recently married 7 months ago. My husband is an addict and I recently found out about a month ago and my life is in ruin. I am a hostage to the one I love
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JaneS gave me a Prayer
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05/05/2008 18:28:36

I am there with you GA Hostage. The one I loved for 22 years became an addict for the past year and a half. It's like watching someone slowly die of cancer. I am looking for dialogue for those of us who love our partners and are not willing to give up on them. I send you a prayer and a hug and suggest that like Mommyof6 suggested that you and I go to Narc-Anon for those who are friends and family of drug addicts. It's so hard. Hang in there. And most of all, love yourself and try not to blame yourself for what is his problem.--J.

nikkii gave me a Hug
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04/21/2008 23:49:33

I know exactly what you are going through even though I am not married we have been engaged for a year and a half. He stops for three or four months at a time and I,m always hoping one of these time will be for good and then he goes back and I feel so stupid. Since we have moved he had not donr it until we went home for a visit. so am I also SOS

mommyofsixFriend2U gave me a Hug
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04/15/2008 11:54:57

I hope you are okay! I haven't talkedto you for awhile. Please let me know how you are! Your friend, Chris

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04/12/2008 20:48:34

MY SON IS AN ADDICT MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU ITS A LONG HARD JOURNEY WITH MANY HEARTACHES AND LET DOWNS JUST NO YOU CANT CHNAGE HIM HE HAS TO DO IT NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU TRY IT WONT WORK MY SON HAS BEEN IN SEVERAL REHABS AND HE IS OK FOR A FEW MONTHS THEN HERE WE GO AGAIN NOW HE IS ON HIS OWN THIS IS THE LIFE HE CHOSE MY DAUGHTER DIDNT CHOOSE THIS CANCER SHE HAS I LOVE MY SON DEARLY BUT IM TIRED OF BEING HIS STEPPING STONE ITS TOUGH LOVE TIME NOW MANY HUGS TO YOU

mommyofsixFriend2U gave me a Hug
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04/08/2008 22:36:19

Here is a hug for you. I thought you may need one. I know that they always make me feel good inside. I hope you are ok. Friends, chris

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My Diary
Diary Description: Living with a drug addict can take its toll
Diary Statistics: Total entries: 3 Total comments: 6 Total combined hits: 145
– Tuesday, April 22 2008 –
Success maybe around the courner
Well I recently got some information from my husbands mother. I didn't want to involve the rest of his family cuz I didn't want to make matter...
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– Monday, April 14 2008 –
S.O.S. (Stuck On Stupid)
I wonder how long does someone have to be in this type of hostage situation till they realize they need to WAKE UP.  I love my husband but I didn...
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– Tuesday, April 08 2008 –
Another Day
You have to ask youself everyday. Who is the addict?  My husband walks around like there is nothing wrong.  Makes me wonder sometime if its ...
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