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2butterflys
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Member Since 03/15/2008 12:47:25
Last Online 05/11/2008 23:33:31
Last Updated 03/31/2008 19:17:44
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Gender: Female
City: Corona
State: California
Occupation: Social Work
A little about me: I married and am now separated from the love of my life. My husband left me four weeks after our wedding in a manic rage- and my whole life desinigrated in a 24 hour period. He was diagnosed as bp but does not accept the dx- has been threatening and verbally abusive, comes home then disappears again for weeks. Looks like I will have to let him go and my heart is broken. The more I understand about this illness, the better able I am to accept and go on.
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norma gave me a Hug
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04/25/2008 12:00:27

You hang in there...things will get better. Don't be a stranger...glad you hang around the forum...hugs, Norma

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04/25/2008 00:03:39

How are you doing??? Hope you are well.

chermw gave me a Hug
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03/31/2008 23:54:22

I am so sorry to hear about your situation. I remember the 1st time I told my husband that I was afraid of him taking offf and leaving in a manic state. (He has told me stories about having done so before we were married, in his prior marriage) The next day he sent ME an email about Borderline Personality disorder, telling me that I have it because of my "intense fear of abandonment". What an ass hole! Anyway, I have taken all I can handle from him, and he has taken and taken and taken from me during the last four (well, almost) years of our marriage. I am looking for an attorney who will represent me against another attorney (my hubby). Good luck to you, and hope to hear from you soon.

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03/30/2008 20:59:46

Thanks for the hug. I alternate between wanting to crawl into a hole, and needing to be responsible and do what needs to be done. I salute your courage! I'm almost there.

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03/30/2008 20:31:53

We will be fine. As lousy and heartsick as we feel right now, we will be just fine. I think you and I became co-dependent on our bipolar significant others. But just remember, we are not the ones that have the curse of this illness, and we will survive and be just fine. The hardest part (breaking it off) is over. You feel free to write me whenever you want. Names Rob by the way.

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