|Member Since||12/03/2009 08:27 AM|
|Last Online||08/10/2012 10:41 AM|
|A little about me:||I like to think of myself as a loving and caring individual, sophisticated and intellectual Sexy and confident. I am very open minded and always up for new and exciting adventures. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff. Drama is not something I practice. Music is a big part of my life; it has gotten me through many rough Times in my life.Without music I would of probably had been institutionalized years ago, lol. Love is a weird thing, to experience the true beauty of it can be amazing but does it really last forever? A question Ive been struggling with for months now, married 30 yrs to a man i adore but he was diagnosed w/ head and neck cancer 4 yrs ago and life hasn't been the same since..
He is hooked on all sorts of drugs and i have no clue who to turn to about it...So i joined this place.. to watch your life pass on by and not know the real answer is a Bitch. Is there really a pot of gold at the end of that crazy rainbow we all try to get too? I wonder.
|Wishing you a happy thanksgiving! I'm thankful for being part of this group.
|"An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward. So when life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means that it is going to launch you into something better." Fasten your seatbelt and enjoy your flight!
|If I attend without reservation to my experience of loss, it will pass. Deny and avoid psychic pain it will be mine forever. All winds come to rest, after the storm, and once still reveal a simple peace: you are still here and life is all around you. The universe is at your door, with it plenitude of small and large mysteries, your for the taking.
Getting to this place may happen without help, or it may require considerable help. If you don’t like how you feel, do something. If that fails, try something else. If you are out of ideas or faith in yourself, get help.
While you are working your way through the losses, never forget that we are fundamentally social animals. We NEED each other, and we must respect this and retain our connections like the lifelines they are. These links to others won’t magically remove our losses, but they will help us walk with and through our grief. The sun will rise again, and the flowers return. It well may not be today, but it does happen and in that you can indeed have faith. When your own faith falters, borrow a little from those close to you – they won’t mind.
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