hey haley, my name is sarah and i'm pansexual. i thought i was a lesbian for awhile but now i've realized that gender doesn't really matter for me. i'll date who i'm interested in rather than date just one specific gender. it's similar to being bisexual. i know right now it's hard to figure out what your mind and body is feeling about guys and girls, especially being only 15. when i first realized i might like girls, i experimented. i didn't just get with any girl of course, but mainly just one girl i really liked who happened to like me back. it really helped in me see that i did like girls a lot. i think it'd be a good idea for you to wait until you find a girl worth your time and not one that you think will just hurt you. it's also pretty important to tell the girl you're interested in that you're unsure of your sexuality. if she is really sure she likes girls and you're not, you could hurt her pretty badly for just being your experiment. and who knows? maybe you guys will end up in a relationship together. as for your guy friend that blocked you, well he wasn't that great of a friend anyway. no one deserves to be treated that way, and you'll make new friends, ones that will accept who you are. i hope i've helped a bit and if you need anymore help, just ask. =] Sarah & Kylie =] |
i have no idea what to do. i feel really alone. and this girl valya likes me, but i know she wld be bad for me and i know shes guna hurt me, but its better then being alone. im so lost