Teen Pregnancy Support Group

omg can any one help me ..... im 11 weeks 2 days pregnant ,my mother is low income and it is taking her sum time to get my insurence and while i have been 2 the doctor's once ,and they did a sonogram iam so scared of having a misscraige .. i know it sounds weird but im already attached to my baby

Hi Tiff! (is it okay if i call you that??) I'm emily. I have a two month old. With my parents income i had to sign up for Medicaid. Its really not bad. They cover the pregnancy and delievery. You should look up information on that! it will save you THOUSANDS of dollars!

Its not weird at ALL to be instantly attached to your baby!! =DDD youre the momma!! I instantly loved my baby, even though i had only known about her existance from peeing on a stick! haha. Now shes sitting in her bouncy seat... not very happy that im not holding her. haha. It shows that youre going to be a great mother that youre already in love your little one. =)

Post edited by: tinysmommie, at: 06/28/2009 11:39 PM

thank you ... i don't have much support from family ... i did try to apply for medicaid and they need my mother's information and becuz she's not to fond of my 1)being pregnant 2) being pregnant by a black guy she refuses to go and give them her information so idk wat to do how long did it take for yu to get medicaid .... and thank yu for saying ima be a great mother sum days i don't know ... it's sounds liek yur a wonderful mother though wats yur daughters name ??

I know how you feel about the miscarriage thing. I am still afraid ill have a miscarriage.. Its pretty scary. Everything i do im like omg... will that hurt the baby. When i went to go sign up for medic aid (medical here) because i was going to have an abortion all they wanted was proof that you live in a house (electrical bill) and social security and birth certificate. When i signed up they said depending on the date you turn your papers in you would usually get it about a month later. hope that helps. correct me if its different. Try not to stress too much bout the miscarriage.

Oh, I'm sorry to hear that about your mom. =( I just had to call the number from the mediciad website and apply over the phone, then they sent paper work to the house for me to sign and send back. They should still let you regardless of your mom. Because the help is for you not her. But anyways..... Theres a TON of programs to help out teen moms. I'll get more info and send it to you. Its all free. So its a big help when you dont have a lot of income. You can get free bread, and milk, and basic stuff like that. I'll get you the information. It takes a little digging but you'll be amazed at how much help there is out there. Its not impossible to be a teen mom like people make you think it is.

by the way, I am SOOOO proud of you for not getting an abortion. Its the best choice you will ever make. It takes an ENORMOUS amount of courage to keep your baby. Good job. =D

And my babys name is Kylianne Joye. =D shes absolutly BEAUTIFUL. and just got a bath. lol.

I hope everything goes well for you and your baby. About the miscarriage thing, I understand. When i was about 13 weeks i started to have contractions BAD, and i just balled cause i thought i was loosing her. But she pulled through cause shes my little fighter. =) You cant stress about it. I constantly worried after that that something was wrong with her, or i was going to miscarry. But as sad as it is to say it, theres just nothing you can do. And if you worry and stress it only puts the baby in disstress. So try to just let everything come that will. Whatever is ment to happen will. And im sure it will all be fine and you have a healthy little kicker in there! =D

What I did was go to the closest clinic. Nd take a pregnancy test even tho u aready know ur pregnant. They will then set another app to give u information. Nd they will give u a paper to go to ur close wic office to go nd apply. They say it takes up to a hour. But I say its worth it becuz u get food nd medicare. I hope I helped

I was the same way i got attached the first time i heard the heart beat. Im here if you need anything. Btw im makayla.

This post is from 2009

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Hello!! There is nothing to worry, there are plans which help in financing the pregnancy and delivery. They also help in getting the stuff of the new baby.