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04/02/2010 08:26 AM
smilingbre

I just found out im like 3-4 weeks pregnant with my bfs baby. I told him and he said when he gets out of the army in July hes moving here to help. My dad passed away 2 yrs ago but I haven't told my mom yet... any advice on how to tell her?
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04/02/2010 09:17 AM  Top
xxHisUggyxx
xxHisUggyxxPosts: 1273
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you just gotta do it hun;; like sit her down n tell her its not gonna b easy but its so much better to get it out



04/02/2010 09:20 AM  Top
Kikchik2491
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I am not going to lie there is no easy way to do it at all. I just kinda sat my parents down and told them. I prepaired myself for the worst reaction that I could get and well my mom bawled her eyes out and my dad surprised me by being pretty calm. Good luck girl. Let us know how it goes! We are all here for you!
Lindsey [MNL & AJL are my life]

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04/03/2010 01:53 PM  Top
smilingbre

ok thanks.. I am trying to find a good time to tell her. I know she will be upset because she put me on birth control so this wouldnt happen.. but yea. She hasn't been in the best mood lately and I kinda think she knows already b/c I told her how I was feeling. She wants to take me to the doc next week so I have to tell her before then. My bf wants me 2 tell her soon because he thinks she will exile him and wont let him see me or the baby and wants to make sure that's not going to happen because he wants to be a major part of the baby's life. I will keep everyone updated and thanks for being here for me because idk what I would do w/o yall and my bf and my bfs sis (she just had a baby in Jan and is 19 so she knows how it is and is being very helpful). well thanks again!

04/03/2010 01:54 PM  Top
smilingbre

Also thanks for making me not feel alone because I feel so alone.

04/03/2010 04:57 PM  Top
smilingbre

So I tried to talk to my mom about it and she was like nothing is wrong w/ u.. ur just saying u don't feel good and stuff is wrong and basically she thinks that I tlk bout feeling bad so often that it makes me feel bad and that theres nothing wrong w/ me and that I am perfectly fine. I told my boyfriend and he thinks that she is in denial.

04/03/2010 05:17 PM  Top
Babyonboard

Try telling her flat out, you're pregnant.

If you 100% sure, just tell her, dont beat round the bush.


04/03/2010 05:18 PM  Top
smilingbre

OK my boyfriend told me if i dont tell her 2night hes calling her and telling her b/c its hard on me when she says what she says.

04/04/2010 09:40 AM  Top
smilingbre

I told my mom last night and to my surprise she didn't get too upset she just wants to make sure that I am. I think she was kinda in shock b/c shes like u had sex? lol.

04/04/2010 01:06 PM  Top
Kikchik2491
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Haha my parents thought I was a virgin when I told them I was pregnant. I am glad she is taking it well Smile
Lindsey [MNL & AJL are my life]

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