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SarahBear21 Posts: 500
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It's not uncommon for rape victims to feel ashamed and blame themselves, but clearly none of them were at fault. That includes you. It might be a good idea to go to therapy if you haven't already or call a rape crisis center in your area that can help you. Because if you're going to raise these kids you need to be able to accept what has happened, preferably cut off contact with the ex bf who did it, and move on so you can give them the best life possible. It's hard and a struggle, but it's necessary. If you feel you're not ready to raise two kids (possibly on your own) then start looking into adoption, maybe open adoption so you can still see them and have picture updates and such. Sarah & Kylie =] |
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