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02/25/2011 05:46 PM
xsunshinee
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Icant stop crying, every night i get home from class i cry because i dont have money. like i have 13 dollars in my account & thats supposed to last me a week & half. i cant even get to work, because I wont have gas. I've sold just about everything I have.& between, brayden, insurance, gas, groceries, & bills. its just not enough. I feel like a horrible mom, because i cant support him. & honestly, i should have given him up for adoption, because im never around (between work & school) & i cant financially support him. I work all day tuesday wednesday thursday. Then i go right to class from 5-10 monday-thursday. now i have to get a second job and work fridays, saturdays and sundays. The only day i'll see him is on mondays....how awful is that? His dad is being very helpful, but he cant find a job either, so idk what to do. ):
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02/25/2011 05:57 PM  Top
YoungMom
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Oyyy sweety I'm sorry! I know it's tough Sad Why don't you drop out of 1-2 classes so you have more time? Or see if you could get rides with someone to a lot of places so you don't have to use gas as much?
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02/25/2011 06:14 PM  Top
chipsbaiigul
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aww girly. i'm so sorry! i wish i could help you. if you ever just wanna call me and cry to me, i'm always here (: i know that's gotta be so hard for you. does the kid have to eat? Wink how about you, you're happier skinny anyways. lol. if there is ANYTHING i can do for you, let me know girl. i love you and brayden and i hate that you're sad. everything is gunna be okay. you're not at all a terrible mom. everything you're doing, you're doing to support him and he will thank you for that someday. (: <3
Isabella&Jake

02/25/2011 07:53 PM  Top
ravenellen
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i know how it is to not have money, everything always works out! for food theres tons of food banks, churches all over offer them! all you need is your i.d and theyll give you bags of things! and as for being busy thats rough, ever think about online courses? its not for everyone but maybe it will work. im sorry you feel so down right now! theres a saying my poppy would always tell me when i wasnt haing the best time "this to shall pass." and he was right everything will pass edventually and get better im not sure if you believe in god and dont want to push any beliefs or offened anyone but i pray all the time and it does help me. if you ever need to talk im here. remember this wont last forever just hang in there and be strong!

02/25/2011 08:56 PM  Top
Meaghan
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You are NOT a bad mom! Just look at how hard you're trying for Brayden!!! He's so lucky to have you! And in the long run all this work/school will be for the best because you'll be able to give him the life that he wants!

Is there any way your parents can help you out until you're done school?


02/26/2011 01:34 AM  Top
xsunshinee
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I cant drop classes or take online cause im not going to college. cosmetology school, is just 20 hours altogether,& the class switches every two weeks. A girl in my class is in the same situation, so shes taking me to a food bank (i havent eaten dinner in two weeks, or had a real meal at all) & isabella, im not getting any skinnier! how rude is that? lol!

Ive asked my mom & her boyfriend, but according to them they have no money. (which is bullshit. her boyfriend has a six figure job. & they keep saying they are gonna kick me out for every little thing! so idk whats wrong with them.) I'm going up to my dads on sunday & im going to sit down, and explain to him whats going, that im too the point of not being able to eat or even get to work on my salary.

Anyway, hopefully talking to my dad gives a good outcome, he doesnt have a lot either, but i just need gas money for this week.


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02/26/2011 08:57 AM  Top
chipsbaiigul
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aww girl. i love you. it's gunna be okay. if you need to talk, i'm always here. and let me know how it goes with your dad! (:
Isabella&Jake
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