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02/07/2011 07:39 PM
xunlucxyx0
xunlucxyx0  
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i know a lot of women end up single and pregnant. and im surprised to find myself in just that position. i was wondering what other girls did to cope with this. does it just get easier over time? im 25 weeks now, and my bf and i split a few weeks back. i wanted to stay friends and still have him be a part of the pregnancy and his daughters life. however i think he made his decision hes too young and doesnt want to deal. at first he said he wanted to be there and fix things. but now hes not even talking to me. even when i tried to talk to him he just ignored me. what do i do? i tried my best to remain friends and even invited him to my drs appt tomorrow which i doubt hell go to since he wont even talk to me. how do i accept whats going on? when does it start getting easier? i feel like now ill be single forever too lol. i dont wanna date anytime soon but one day id like to meet a very nice man. does that happen? sorry this was so long lol
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02/07/2011 07:46 PM  Top
YoungMom
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Hey,

What's your name? There are plenty of girls on here who are single moms and do awesome! Some times the dad comes back in the picture and they get back together, sometimes the dad becomes part of the babys life again, and other times they are hardly heard of. Either way, you are going to do an AMAZING job Smile Do you have family support?

Anyways, my name is Lir, I'm 21 years old have a 6 months old daughter. If you have any questions or just want to talk, feel free to pm me!

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02/07/2011 07:55 PM  Top
Meaghan
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Hey! My name's Meaghan and I'm a single mom to a 15 month old boy. My ex and I broke up when I was 18 weeks pregnant and at first it was hard. We fought constantly and he didn't know if he wanted to be involved in our son's life. Once I had Brayden (my son) he came around and we became really good friends. For a while we were best friends and didn't fight at all. It's only been in the past month and a half that I've given up on him, but thats a whole other story. He's still tries to contact me at least once or twice a week, but I've gotten to the point where I'm just ignoring him.

Honestly, it was a roller coaster in the beginning, but after I had Brayden I became so, so strong and now I don't find it hard at all. I'm just fed up with my ex and I really couldn't care less if I'm friends with him or not. As long as he's a part of our son's life I'm happy. As for doing it by myself.. I love it because I'm a very independent person and I feel like if I had someone else trying to raise my son with me we'd butt heads like crazy lol. Anyways, if you need to talk to anyone I'm here! Oh, and you will NOT be single forever! I've turned down a few guys since I've had Brayden lol.. After you have your daughter you probably won't have the time/want for a new boyfriend. Boys are just too much work lol


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02/07/2011 08:06 PM  Top
elijahbless9
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im a single mommy too! Quis (sons father) put me thru it all when i was prego but when eli was born i can hardly count the days he wasn't here. We were bestfriends & i fell in love with him all over again but he recently past so now its just me & eli. It's hard but i'll do anything for my son. it's very possible just stay strong

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02/07/2011 08:07 PM  Top
xunlucxyx0
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thank you! im Ashley btw. and im glad to hear the good stories! all i want is a good outcome. and i think its just being pregnant its hard not to have that support from the baby's father. i know when shes here im going to be too busy to even worry about dumb things like this though. i just want to be strong through it now and do whats best for my daughter because she deserves it! and im so excited about seeing her for the first time and everything! i think maybe im just bored and have too much time on my hands ive been on best rest for almost 6 weeks now so im kinda goin stir crazy

02/08/2011 06:18 AM  Top
momma2be
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im not gunna go in depth with my story cause its crazy long, but im a single mom too...i havent quite hit the point where im happy yet but im getting there. lol.

My names Toni. Im 17 and my son is a month old. welcome to the group, and pm me if you ever want to talk. Smile

* & at night she whispers to her baby boy, "Someday we'll find our place here in this world, this is our temporary home, it's not where we belong. Windows and rooms that we're passin' through, this is just a stop, on the way to where we're going, I'm not afraid because I know this is our temporary home."
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