Teen Pregnancy Support Group

i found out i was pregnant abouut 2 weeks ago and i finally got the guts to tell my family and close friends. i have lost about 3 friends my aunties and granfather really dont want to no me, luckely my mum said im stupid but its my life and she's still by my side. the time is going so slow i wish 7 months would hurry up and pass. school is a nightmare now i never want to go i feel like everyone is looking and laughing at me i feel even my friends are thinking in there head what a stupid cow. its horrible when only a few of your friends understnad. i never imagined it would be this hard to act normal, coz it isnt normal im still finding it hard to get over the fact im going to be a mom when im just a kid myself. i just hope i cant grow up enough.

Unfortunatley thats how alot of us felt. Most of us lost all of our friends. Even now i dont have the same friend i had when i wasnt pregnant. Those friends i cant stand. They are really immature. But thats what pregnancy does to you.. It makes you grow up. My mom and I lost our close relationship.. My stepdad wouldnt talk to me. ITs rough. But people will eventually come around. Try to stay positive. It will take time but things do get better!

It sucks Unfortunately like Hayley said, it only gets worse. At this point I have no friends (other then the girls on here), only like 2 family members speak to me and I really have no life. Don't rush these 7 months, it only gets harder once the baby comes. I think new girls who join get upset with me that I ask if they've considered all options and REALLY thought it through. This is NOT easy at all, physically or emotionally. The "oh what a cute baby" doesn't happy that often.

I agree with Lir. ENJOY YOUR PREGNANCY. Pregnancy for me was awesome. Once the baby comes it get about a billion times harder. So enjoy the next 7 months while they last

i agree with lir. you have to go through all of your options. my son is one year old today and i still wonder to myself if it's not more than i can really handle for 17 more years, never getting a break. that said, being a mom is definitely something you can do but it does only get harder. i think a mistake a lot of girls, including me, make is that they think after these next "7 months" or whatever, it'll get better. when in reality, it only gets harder. enjoy the time to yourself. cry when you need to, yell and scream and throw a fit, do whatever it is that might make anything better for you.

Gosh you girls are so right...a couple weeks ago i was begging for labor now im wondering how the hell am i going to survive this.

I agree, im to the point now where im getting uncomfortable and i just want to meet him, but at the same time that brings on a whole new part of my life, and things i have to do..as much as i dislike being pregnant right now, i wish it would last a little longer.

i totally agree with hayley and lir, it's only going to get tougher and at a point you just have to ask yourself are all these opinionated people worth my time. people are going to look at you oddly and though it's tough just try to ignore them. PM me anytime