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Positive Bipolar Spouses ForumsGeneral & SupportToday is the day!!!!!
05/16/2012 12:40 AM
marriedtoit
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Today is the day to make a major step towards happiness, fulfillment, and peace.

You can do it! You can reach towards happiness! You can leave behind misery and unhappiness!

You can do ONE thing today that will make you happier in the long term. That might be 1) insisting your SO gets on psych meds, 2) signing up for course at a local comm. college or adult ed program 3) making an appt with a therapist who will help you sort out your feelings.

We believe in you!!!!

All of my advice is based on experience and reading. I am not a medical doctor, and have never even played one on TV.
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05/16/2012 04:17 AM  Top
Silverlock
Silverlock  
Posts: 2030
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Yesterday I finally got a Psychologist off my insurance list to call back. I have an appointment next Tuesday.
Mania Sucks!
Infidelity Sucks!
Sociopaths Suck!

05/16/2012 05:15 AM  Top
wifeonbpexpress
wifeonbpexpress  
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That's AWESOME, Silverlock!
You are worthy of respect, love, and empathy. Choose life, find your joy, find your passion.

Please see a licensed counselor for professional direction. All I can provide is my best advice.

05/16/2012 06:13 AM  Top
WornOut2
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I missed my first counselling appointment on the 4th because son's bedroom renovation project was the priority.

I called back this past Saturday to reschedule. Still waiting to hear. If I wait too much longer, I'm going to call someone else. The person with whom I made the appointment with didn't give me "warm fuzzies," so if she doesn't call back in a timely manner I'm just going to view that as an omen.

PS. Good for you Silverlock!


05/16/2012 06:43 AM  Top
sallyo
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Hope it goes well for you Silverlock!

Thanks for the reminder Married. I needed to hear it.

Confession: I've been laid low by a virus complicated with asthma. I realized that I have been putting so much in helping hubby through a bad mixed episode that I haven't taken care of myself very well.

I have to work at least a few hours a day this week, and when I get better I am going to take several days off for myself and start actively planning a long-awaited trip to Mexico to visit my daughter and her family. I'm in the state of mind right now that I'm going to go whether hubby can handle it or not. Smile

Post edited by: sallyo, at: 05/16/2012 07:01 AM

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05/16/2012 09:01 AM  Top
hopefulcb
hopefulcb  
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Good for you Sallyo, you deserve it! Way to go Silverlock, I think it is great that you ae doing something for yourself.

I made arrangements to go to Vegas to see the Beach Boys with my sons, mom and MIL, while hubby is at a retreat on Memorial Day Weekend. This is definitely for ME Smile

It isn't my husband's fault he has an illness. It is his responsibility on how he treats it so he doesn't hurt others or himself in the midst of it.

My opinion, is just that, I am here to share my experience, strength and hope to those whose lives have been affected by this disorder :)

"When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place."
~ Unknown
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