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Positive Bipolar Spouses Forums › General & Support › What does it take to get committed?
03/03/2011 06:15 PM
LonelyHubby
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How serious does the harm to self or others thing have to be? I'm actually asking for myself. I've had some very black thoughts during all this that I've been scared to share with my shrink because quite frankly I can not afford, money or time, any kind of inpatient treatment. Nothing I would ever act on, my mind has unfortunately gone these kind of places during times of great duress in the past, but since I am seeking treatment for my own head problems now I feel its the kind of thing I should face.
The world is too dangerous for anything but truth and too small for anything but love.

I found a four leaf clover. It had one leaf missing. That was OK.
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03/03/2011 06:44 PM  Top
bethb2004
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I'm not sure how black your thoughts are, but you usually have to prove that you are harmful to yourself or others. Having a suicide plan, actual suicide attempt, verbal or physical threats, etc. It usually takes the police (which in some places is rare), a doctor, or two family members who are willing to testify to a judge that you are unable to care for yourself. That's involuntary though. If you wanted to commit yourself voluntarily, you just need to go to the nearest hospital or in-patient clinic.

if you really think it's serious, I would suggest seeking help. There are generally programs available for people who can't afford treatment and it does sound like you seriously need a break for a bit. Plus, if you were to commit yourself, I don't think a hospital could turn you away. Have you decided on going to see your mother?

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03/03/2011 06:57 PM  Top
LonelyHubby
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Well, the point is I want to deal with it, I do not want to be committed.

I'm still on the fence about going to see my mom. I do need the break, but I really need a job too.

The world is too dangerous for anything but truth and too small for anything but love.

I found a four leaf clover. It had one leaf missing. That was OK.

Previous discussions I participated in:
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03/03/2011 06:59 PM  Top
behindthemask
I still say - go see mom - that could be therapeutic...

03/03/2011 07:14 PM  Top
wifeonbpexpress
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I would say even a couple weeks break would be called for in your situation. You have been immersed in this crap for a long time and even though leaving it physically for a while won't cure anything, it may give you a new perspective. And your mom will take care of you like only a mom can, right? You can still check online for jobs and make some calls while you're there.
You are worthy of respect, love, and empathy. Choose life, find your joy, find your passion.

Please see a licensed counselor for professional direction. All I can provide is my best advice.

03/03/2011 07:27 PM  Top
marriedtoit
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Go see your mom. I think that might stop the bleak thoughts you are having. Unless you think you might do harm to others or yourself. Check yourself in. Don't worry about the money. They can't milk a turnip (you cannot pay them what you don't have) they also can't throw you out if you are a danger.
All of my advice is based on experience and reading. I am not a medical doctor, and have never even played one on TV.

03/03/2011 07:31 PM  Top
bethb2004
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Are you afraid your therapist will try to have you committed if you admit your feelings to him? Because the first thing they will do is help you deal with and work through your immediate needs. You have to be pretty far gone to end up in the hospital against your wishes.

Post edited by: bethb2004, at: 03/03/2011 07:32 PM

03/03/2011 07:35 PM  Top
LonelyHubby
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I'm jvst tired. She doesn't want to be with me because I can't provide. I haven't steadily brought home money in 5 years. Running off for a month won't help anything.
The world is too dangerous for anything but truth and too small for anything but love.

I found a four leaf clover. It had one leaf missing. That was OK.

Previous discussions I participated in:
To Spy Or Not To Spy?
Went To Pdoc Yesterday
Thursday

03/03/2011 07:37 PM  Top
LonelyHubby
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Are you afraid your therapist will try to have you committed if you admit your feelings to him ?

Pretty much, yeah.

The world is too dangerous for anything but truth and too small for anything but love.

I found a four leaf clover. It had one leaf missing. That was OK.

Previous discussions I participated in:
To Spy Or Not To Spy?
Went To Pdoc Yesterday
Thursday

03/03/2011 07:44 PM  Top
behindthemask
Ya know, the jobs won't change much in a couple weeks/ month? If mom is willing to fly you there and watch over you that sounds like the best thing for now - and it's free! You may be better suited to find a job if your emotions are better under control. Dang I would love to go to Europe Smile It's your decision, but a free get away may be just what you need, Lonely...
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