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03/02/2011 08:04 PM
bethb2004
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My husband starts a new job tomorrow as a supervisor and industrial programmer for a shipbuilding company. We've been struggling a bit lately with his other job (government contracts are never stable) and this one just seemed to fall out of the sky. He interviewed this morning (for another position. They gave him supervisor instead.) They called and offered him the position this afternoon and he starts tomorrow. I'm a bit shocked with the quickness of it. He's excited. Good excited, not manic excited. It seems like things are looking up and I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it keeps going in this direction.
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03/02/2011 08:08 PM  Top
marriedtoit
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That's great to hear Beth. I know that you were so worried about money during the holidays. It sounds like this job will really turn things around for you. He must have really wowed them in the interview. Give him extra kudos for that!
All of my advice is based on experience and reading. I am not a medical doctor, and have never even played one on TV.

03/02/2011 08:09 PM  Top
wifeonbpexpress
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That's awesome, Beth!
You are worthy of respect, love, and empathy. Choose life, find your joy, find your passion.

Please see a licensed counselor for professional direction. All I can provide is my best advice.

03/02/2011 10:28 PM  Top
lollipop
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Tell your hubby congrats!
YOU ARE GOING TO MAKE IT!!!! IF I DID...ANYONE CAN.

Forgiving does not erase the bitter past. A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future.” Lewis B. Smedes

I am not a doctor, my advice is purely my opinion.

03/03/2011 07:37 AM  Top
sallyo
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Congratulations!
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03/03/2011 07:55 AM  Top
behindthemask

Great news! Maybe that will help hs esteem, thus help with his relationships too!

03/03/2011 08:21 AM  Top
ridingthewaves
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yay!! congrats!

03/03/2011 01:55 PM  Top
enoughalready
enoughalready
 
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Congrats to both of you, that is so great!!
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.

03/03/2011 07:12 PM  Top
bethb2004
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Thanks everybody! I was a little in shock yesterday because everything happened so fast. I woke up poor, but went to bed solid middle class! Smile I'm happy for him and he seems to be doing pretty well with the sudden change. He filled out his paperwork this morning and spent the rest of the day gathering tools, getting his social security card straightened out (he lost his), and getting his truck fixed. He ''officially'' starts tomorrow. The sad part is that we were supposed to go to Atlanta this weekend for a friends birthday party, but now he will have to work. They want him on Saturday. Oh well, I'll make the trip myself.

Aside from the money, the upside is full health insurance and precription coverage!!! Yay! He'll also be on a fairly rigid schedule. Waking up at the same time, eating at the same time, going to bed at the same time, etc. My husband functions quite well when he does those things.

The downside is that they want him to work up to sixty hours a week to start out. I'm concerned it's quite a bit, but he seems up to the challenge and it won't be the first time in his life he's worked those kind of hours. Also, I'm kind of sad that, because of his schedule, we won't be able to see each other as often as we planned. We're currently living three hours apart in different states because I'm finishing up school and there were just NO jobs in the area that fit his background. I think we can work it out with phone calls, and I can go down once in awhile on the weekends. I miss him though. And it's only until the middle of summer....

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