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05/28/2012 11:24 AM

my story

fallxoutxboy

Posts: 5
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Hey,

My name is Dustin. I am 18 yrs old and I live in Missouri. I have a beauitful baby boy that is 8 months old.

I was sexually and physially abused by my father for as long as I could remember until I was 16. My mother left my dad when I was 3. He always used it as a punishment. When I misbehaved he'd always say this is what bad little boys get. He would always make me give him oral. When I was 16 my father ended up getting really drunk. I dont remember that night well but I ended up in the hospital. My friend came over and snuck through my bedroom window. He thought I was died and he called 911.

After that I moved in with my mom. The first time I ever remember her was at the hosptial. I didn't even know who she was at first.

05/30/2012 08:13 AM Top

1magicman

Posts: 3215
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Hi Dustin welcome to our small group. It Takes a lot of strenth and curage to come out and say what happen. Im so soory for what you have goen threw. Your not alone by far. You have taken a huge step toward your healing. Take babysteps. Don't try to solve everything at one time. If you need to talk im here for you. Just PM me anytime.

( Hope To Cope ) Scott

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06/03/2012 05:19 PM Top

hiall

Posts: 1836
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Hi Dustin, welcome to the group. Sorry to hear what happened to you. PM me anytime you want to talk.

Hiall

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06/07/2012 01:27 AM Top

godspimp

Posts: 34
Member

Hey Dustin. Glad you joined us here. So sorry to hear about yo9ur past... There is healing tho... I hope you have a therapist by now and talk about these issues with him/her. I was raped when I was a kid at knife point, so I can imagine how you feel.. Feel free to continue posting and or to send a PM if you need to talk one on one.

God bless you!

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“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde
“Insanity is doing the same thing, over and over again, but expecting different results.”
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