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04/26/2008 21:49
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 I found out Thursday that my sister is pregnant, not due until Dec. I really do not want her to be triggered by her child, especially since I believe she has no knowledge of anything. Any ideas on how to approach the subject? Yes, she is 30, and I am still trying to protect her. She has never hinted at knowing, and I do not want her child being the one to bring her into reality, that's not fair to either of them. Help me.

Brenda
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04/26/2008 22:04
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 hey bunny, i think i am lost...what is wrong with her that she doesn't know about







"We Know We Are Out Of Step When"

We cannot walk a straight line.
We've stepped on our brother's foot.
We forget to be thankful.
We feel alone.
We think our dance is the only dance there is.


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04/26/2008 22:25
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 Sorry, just assumed that most had readall the posts within the site. I watched my uncle molesting her when I was 4, that was the event that caused me to say something to my mother. Anyway, as far as I know she does not have any recollection of this event. As far as I know there was only one event. We have had conversations about what happened to me before, but she has never hinted that she is aware of anything happening to her, and I have never asked.Not really wanting to bring the subject up, but feel that maybe I should now. There were several posts between Lori and I on the One Sided Love Scene. Brenda

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04/26/2008 22:29
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 OK bunny, that had to be very very traumatic to see at age 4. Can you tell me how old she was?







"We Know We Are Out Of Step When"

We cannot walk a straight line.
We've stepped on our brother's foot.
We forget to be thankful.
We feel alone.
We think our dance is the only dance there is.


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04/26/2008 22:32
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 She was 18 months. Yes it was, still not the easiest thing to talk/type about. I was in a closet, where I shouldn't have been in the middle of the night. Brenda
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04/26/2008 22:37
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 OK, THANK YOU BUNNY. I REALLY DON'T THINK THAT AT 18 MONTHS SHE WILL REMEMBER IT NOW....... 3-4 IS THE USUAL AGE FOR MEMORY RECOLLECTION. I WOULD NOT TELL HER . IF SHE EVER BRINGS IT UP LIKE REAL MEMORIES OF THE ABUSE, THEN YOU CAN PERHAPS GIVE HER YES AND NO ANSWERS. THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO NEED TO TELL HER. WHAT GOOD WOULD POSSIBLY COME OUT OF IT.







"We Know We Are Out Of Step When"

We cannot walk a straight line.
We've stepped on our brother's foot.
We forget to be thankful.
We feel alone.
We think our dance is the only dance there is.


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04/26/2008 22:42
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 I have always felt that way as well, but with her anxiety disorder, and panic attacks, I sometimes wonderif she doesn't. I remember what he did to me when I was 2. That is not much older. Really just do not know what I am thinking at this time. Brenda

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04/26/2008 22:50
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 DEAR BRENDA, YOU ARE A THOUGHTFUL AND VERY LOVING PERSON AS WELL AS BEING A GREAT SISTER I BET. I KNOW YOU WILL DO THE RIGHT THING CAUSE IT WILL COME FROM YOUR LOVING HEART. BEST OF LUCK WITH THIS.

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GLORIA








"We Know We Are Out Of Step When"

We cannot walk a straight line.
We've stepped on our brother's foot.
We forget to be thankful.
We feel alone.
We think our dance is the only dance there is.


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04/26/2008 22:58
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 She is more than a sister to me, she is my duaghter. As a matter of fact I think of her as so to the point that when asked what my sister and I were talking about, my husband told our oldest that he was going to be an uncle. Isn't that something.
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04/26/2008 23:02
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 BUT HOW DID YOU SEE THIS HAPPEN WHEN YOU WERE FOUR AND SHE WAS 18 MONTHS??? HOW COULD YOU BE HER MOTHER? I AM CONFUSED AGAIN LOL







"We Know We Are Out Of Step When"

We cannot walk a straight line.
We've stepped on our brother's foot.
We forget to be thankful.
We feel alone.
We think our dance is the only dance there is.


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