Crying?

Brenda

GLORIA

Brenda

Have you tried those eye drops? They can produce fake tears and help with the redness. Have you had any illnesses lately? They may be plugged up and not able to produce tears. Any new meds. or anything like that?

Has this happened before? I'd call your doctor and see if they could help.

Sorry, I got carried away with questions and didn't have much to offer for answers. I can give you a caring heart and open ears. If there is anything else I can do, let me know......Your Friend, Chris

I hope you feel better soon!

Since you don't know what you are sad about maybe it is something your subconcious is holding on to. This stuff comes out in little bits as you can handle it. Or as Chris suggested maybe it is something medical.

Sorry your suffering, I know how it is to not be able to cry.

Lori

Your probably right Lilbit, I probably have disconnected to it. I just wish it wouldreconnect itself. I feel that crying it out will be the only way to relieve this feeling. although something hit me last night. It kinda feels like when I was little and refused to "give" them the satisfaction of seeing me respond. So for now just trying to comfort the "little ones". Letting them know they are O.K. now.

Brenda

You probably hit the nail on the head bunny, - "not wanting to give them the satisfaction..." It's hard to fight our built up ways of coping / surviving. Doesn't help when someone says your faking, because really your not. Gloria is right though the mediphor of peeling an onion is getting down to the deeper feelings. Let go enough and you will cry. I'll tell you it's embarassing at first, but I had to finally realize that it was better for me to reconnect with my feelings. Not that I am an emotional person, but I'm not so rational and unfeeling. You'll get there. Sometimes it was easier for me to read someone elses story and remember that I felt the same way at that time and then tell myself I was feeling ...angry, sad, guilty whatever.