Sexual Abuse Support Group

Damien, I am also one of the GL in this group, I just wanted to welcome you to the group and let you know you are not alone. This is a safe place to come to talk, vent, get angry what ever you need to help you heal. No one here will ever judge you or put you down we are all here for support and to support others. There is nothing wrong with you the one that is pathetic is the abuser they are the ones in the wrong. Please feel free to post or answer post anytime and know you can always text me anytime. I wanted to also tell you I have been abused until the age of 14 by my bio father then went on to live in parks where I was raped and then went through a very abusive marriage no im disabled due to it. This group has meant so much to me to know im not alone in what I been through or that what im feeling is normal. I know sometimes we get so mad we take things out on people who dont deserve it like family, husbands, friends now what I try to do is when I feel overwhelemed and feel like im gonna burst I write in a journal the way im feeling so I can get all my fustrations out. I also love to come on here to vent because I know im safe and others understand.

Mary

Thank you all for the comments, it seems so wrong that I'm actually grateful that there are people that understand the feelings that I have, and b-fly I've learnt now that this is nothing to be embarresed about!!!!! I thought it was for so long

As my friend always states "It is what it is"

Exactly for so long I for one was hiding away embaressed about everything but now I'm lucky because I got a councolor who helps and close family for when I have the bad days, feel bad I kept this to me for so long

You are not the only one that would hide the pain and embarasement I know for so long I didnt tell any one I was so afraid of what they would think of me and how they would treat me. I wont lie to this day some times its hard to accept the fact that I had sex with my own bio father even though I was molested I still have days where I feel so gross and dirty but then I have to remind myself that im a survivor and no matter what he did to my body he didnt touch my soul. I think its so great you got a counselor and family that are there for you that is great I wish I did so now this group has become my family and my safe haven a place where I can say how I feel and know no one will judge me.

Mary

Thanks all the support is a great comfort during these tough times

How are you making out so far?

Been alot more good times than bad as of late, so thats always a possitive.... be a load better when I adventuly get more than 3-4 hours sleep at night.

As an abused child I think the ones who have been abused by mother and father probaly have the hardest time dealing with the abuse they have lost all trust in the people that they call mommy and daddy. I really feel for you guys cause in reality you cant even trust the ones who are entrusted in protecting you. Seek mental health help is your very first choice and the beginning of your new life.