We eat, we breath, we have patterns. That stake is our environment we grew up in. We know it's a wrong one, but the stake is safe, and familiar, we know our limits. Removing the stake, is like baby bird finally attempting flight. (great thought btw cap) We have to be brave enough to make a new pattern, walk down new paths, unfamiliarity will make you retreat, curiousity will make you go back and walk down it alittle. Through bravery, we can keep going further down the path and explore more.
Eventually we can go on explorations,,,,,,look into families that have what you never did. Write a list of all the qualities you crave.
Also write a list of why you don't think you deserve it.
Keep doing this, eventually, ask yourself, who's words are on the con side? Who said these things to make it impossible???
When we can peg where it came from and confront it, we can give that stake, back to that trainer, and begin, with baby steps, our own exploration, of creating our own safe environment, without limitations to space to explore.
The gammit is huge, emotional freedom, phsycical freedom, our own opinions freedom, and the toughest our own self worth opinion.
On self worth, you will have to be your own trainer, to your inner child. One self help book I read, so many of them, it said to give that child what it lacked.
I still go to toy stores, and find something so cool. I buy it, play with it, then when my curiousity has been met, I find a deserving child, and give it to them.
What does your inner child want? A new doll, a cool car model to build, and get messy without getting in trouble, the skies the limit.
Was this good cap????
