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02/06/2008 15:56
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 i just recently told my mom that my dad was molesting me for four years and over the past summer raped me. i feel extremly dirty and i feel horrible for telling her. she hasnt done anything yet cuz it was just sunday that i finally told her. but i feel like i betrayed him... i know i shouldnt but i do... and i was really hoping that i could just talk to someone(s) about it all and maybe get myself over feeling guilty... (my diary has a more descriptive entry)

*jess* (fake name)
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03/06/2008 20:04
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 Hi im new to this but i just wanted to say i was molested by a close cousin for 4 years and the one thing you should never do is to blame yourself it gets hard sumtimes and u may feel like u betrayed your dad but he was the one who did wrong not you. always remember that and u will be on the road to recovery sooner

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04/16/2008 05:57
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 hey hun, I was molested by my dad for about 6 years, and it is the worst feeling in the world i now. I told my mom when i was a kid when it first started and she brought it up to him and it stopped for about 5 years, but she didnt get me out, after my parents got divorced i decided to stay with my dad even though the abuse was happening because i fought with my mom all the time, and that was because she didnt protect me when i was a kid, you know that you cant be in that sitution, your dad put himself in this spot and you shouldnt be blaiming yourself and if your mom doesnt do anything, you need to stand up for yourself and do something, it is really hard and i couldnt tell the truth till about a week after i was not living with my dad anymore, but i am now dealing with it and it is the worst, sit her down and talk to her again, find out whats going on, and tell him that if he doesnt stop your goign to the cops, maybe your mom is just trying to figure out what to do, and get her feelings together about the whole thing, because it is something really hard to grasp.


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05/17/2008 10:55
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 I hope your mom can do the right thing by you. Mother above all others should protect their children even if it means from their father. The lack of protection will harm you further, so please don't think that you are not worth protecting, because you are. If she does nothing bring it up again, if she wants to just bury it and not deal with it then you will have to tell him no in very uncertain terms. If you are in school you can tell a trusted teacher or counselor. They are obligated by law to help you, but then it will be out in the open, which is something most of us are afraid of. I hope your mother does right by you..
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11/08/2008 17:13
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 Jess, I don't see that you are online anymore. I hope that means that you are getting help in your life. I'm a mom in my 40s. I hate to think that you are out there still dealing with this. You sound like you feel responsible for your dad's actions. It's hard to accept, but, your dad is a grown man. He made a concious decision and it hurt you. What he did is against the law and brutal. We all love our parents. It's hard not to because they are all we have. But, sometimes parents behave badly. That was really brave of you to tell your mom. If she didn't respond, there are adults out there that would help you. You have to be willing to talk with them. I hope you've gotten some help for this. I hope things are working out. I hope you'll post more here if you still need support. I'm sorry you had to go through this, Sharone
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