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01/01/2008 06:59
onlyme
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Well I'm 18 years old, and I attend a community college. I live at home with my parents. I want to know if my father is being inappropriate with me. Almost every night, he asks me to massage his hands, or scratch his back, and he usually makes a moaning noise when I do it. He asks my sisters to do the same thing. Sometimes I refuse to do these things for him, and walk out the room. Also, this is rare, but sometimes my father says things to me that makes me uncomfortable. Like this one time when it was my sister's birthday, he asked why my breasts were sagging. Isn't it weird that he was looking at my breasts? I read on a credible website that one of the traits that a sexual predator has is extreme jealousy of the child they are abusing, and the child's friends. My father made a comment about me saying, "Oh she's going to be f**king somebody" if I moved in with my friend and her boyfriend. Do you think that it is abnormal for him to automatically assume that I'm going to be sleeping with somebody? Is he jealous that I might find a male relationship? Please help. My mother seems to be in denial about my father doing in wrongdoing. I think that she may be scared of the truth. My father also leaves the house a lot without my mother, and I think that he may be having an affair, but my mom never seems to ask him where he has been. I think that she may be scared of the truth. So could you all help me please? Is my father being inappropriate with me? Please justify your answer.
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01/31/2008 10:07
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i think he is... i have been sexually abused most of my life,,, and my dad got jealous over my friends and boyfriends all the time, and he wanted me there 24/7,,, when i was younger he would actually ground me for the stupidist reasons,,,, and yes about the boobs yes, your dad should never make you feel uncomfortable,,, NEVER....

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05/17/2008 10:21
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Yes, its sexual abuse but of the emotional kind rather than physical. It incestous for a father to make sexual comments like those with his daughter. If he hasn't touched you then he must have some self control or is out having an affair instead. I'd keep my distance in closed quarters. Since you are now older I would think he would be less likely to touch you. Have you ever told him his comments make you uncomfortable? Just like the man who seually harasses someone at work, he needs to be told.


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