Sex Addiction Support Group

Tony. Sexaholic. One day sober. I was living with my gf in Peoria. We had met on facebook and gave living together a shot. We were together a total of six months. Her 22 year old daughter disclosed to me (a sex addict) that she had nude self portraits on her flip phone. My gf was upset because the house was filthy (her daughter is a slob) so I saw the phone. Before I knew it, I was zipping through those pix looking for the naughty ones. The gf got real pissed so I put the phone down. But it was too late. She kicked me out of her house. Had I known I would lose her in all this, I would NEVER have picked up that damn phone. But this is what Sex Addiction does. It cripples and it destroys relationships. Now, I just want her back...

Welcome Tony, you always have a place here. That has to feel doubly traumatic to slip and loose your relationship. I once heard a speaker say that a slip is like a car pulling off the road anddriving into a ditch - it's important that we find are way back to the road, even if we have to start out walking. One day at a time.

Thank you JonesFallsX. Tony, Sexaholic. One day sober. I miss my gf Erin. I recall the good times we had. Making love, hanging out, joking around with each other, shopping, watching movies together, etc. I go to sleep alone at night and I miss having her there to hold in my arms. I usually wake up in the dead of night to relieve myself because we always used to make love before we went to bed. Everyone tells me that I will get over it in due time. But I look at other girls out on the street and they don't even faze me. I want Erin back but she says that I have to work on my sex addiction. So, here I am. I used to go to a live meeting but I had a falling out with one of the other members. So, now, I just go online to address my issues. So, even though I'm no longer with her, I still find myself lusting after my ex-girlfriend.

There is always trauma and loss when a relationship ends. Not only did you loose the women you love but you also lost a routine that was helping you get to sleep - and i'm sure countless other little comforts that had just become nice and routine. Take it one day at a time and look for the next step. We don't have to recover over night, just keep taking that next step.