Separation & Divorce Online Support Group

hi, i'm 35 and i'm about to go thru separetion, is really hard, i'm really hurt i'm scared at the same time but, i try to be positive about the whole thing, it just wasn't mean to be i still love him and i always will but i know that he's not for me.

Post edited by: faithlady35, at: 06/22/2010 08:31 PM

I went through this about a year and a half ago...only he left me. I was about to turn 30 and it was so hard, but you can't make someone love you or want to work things out and be with you. I had to let him go and move on. I hope things get better for you!

faithlady35: i was 38 when my ex and i got seperated. it is hard, i had always been a homemaker, and never had stayed by myself, so building a new life didnt come real easy. i faced many hurdles, many days i just didnt think i could make it thru one more minute, let alone one more day, there were things i had to learn how to do, face up to the moments when i heard a noise outside only to know i had to be the one to get up and see what was making that noise. i know these all sound pretty silly ,but the point is: life is about you now,as an individual, and not as a couple. you are truely not alone. there are many who face the fears and challenges. and being scared is normal. what you are facing isnt an everyday event to you and it will take time to adjust. i am sorry you are hurting. please send me a message anytime you feel discouraged.