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willif3 Posts: 3
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I am reaching out for help. I am currently separated I have not gotten a divorce yet, we have been separated 7 months now. My husband of over 20 years had an affair and now this woman says she has his child. It has been over 2 years since I found out about the other woman. The reason I am seeking counseling is the situation is driving me crazy. Since our separation he has not made an effort to make it right with me, he has shown no remorse. He has lied over and over about his dealings with her and I feel the ultimate betrayal. I have humiliated myself trying to hold on to my family, to my marriage. I am grieving, this feels like death. I have to find a way to move on with my life and I just can't seem to get over how he has treated me. The bad part about this is our young adult children are hurting also. We had problems I was not perfect but I was committed to my marriage. The problems we had before I feel we could have worked out, now he brings someone else and a possible baby into the picture so he is hurting more people. I have cried so much that I have made myself sick, what do I do? How do I move on? I can't keep fighting for someone who doesnt't want me. I need help!
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