Separation & Divorce Online Support Group

Hello everybody! I'm just kind of curious, I know we all have stories to tell. I personally like to vent allllllll the time.

For every one thing you mention that you hated about your ex, I'll mention one from mine.

I'll go first....

I absolutely hated that my ex felt like he was so entitled! He was allowed to do what ever he absolutely wanted, whether it hurt me, his mother, my family, or his children...he didn't care. He felt like he was entitled to be able to do what ever he wanted.

Hellloo! Anybody?

my ex was such a drunk he pissed on me on christmas morning!!! Could not take that drunk anywhere!! People would say oh hes good looking he looks like brad pitt, HA LOL I would say yal if you only knew what happens behind closed doors!! 4 years of his crap is when I got extremely violent Right back at him!!!

Ugh, he's totally disgusting...I'm very glad you got away from that mess. My ex would drink a six pack a day, bring home a couple bottles of wine a week and several tiny bottles of liquor and he insisted that he didn't have a drinking problem.

After cleaning out our trashcan with weed, cigarettes, and broken glass beer bottles and stickied liquor every four days, I would have to disagree! What a nightmare!

I told him the only medication he needs to be on is the kind for people with bi-polar. Its interesting though cause he is bi-polar, but he has an "addict mentality" so even the pills used to treat his bi-polar would probably be abused.

Thank you for sharing your story! Let me know if you can think of anything else

one thing i absolutely hated about my ex, was how often he would critic EVERYTHING i did. He would correct my Grammar, and get disgusted with my habits and make me feel terrible about it!

OH and he NEVER trimmed his body hair... he could practically braid his armpits.. yuck

LOL! My father (59 yrs old) has hair growing out of his ears. LOL. He has more hair on his body than he does on his head..which is none on his head.

My ex would critcize how I cooked and would stand over me when I added a "pinch" of salt or pepper and get angry with me because it was too spicy for Jenny...which it wasn't...she totally loved it. He also told me over and over again how to load the dishwasher. He would get angry with me if I put any bowls on the bottom shelf because it was a waiste of space. He would wine the entire time I was taking a bath because I took too long and it was interfering with our "together time". And not even ten minutes after I got out and in bed, he would pause the movie and go into the bathroom and pluck his facial hair for half an hour.

My ex didn't correct my grammar, but he would argue with me about everything....believe me, he was wrong about a lot of things. He suggested often that I go look it up on line and than he would get upset with me for not taking his word for it. And than he would follow me around and often throw the laptop...I'm amazed it still functions.

When I was pregnant, he would insist on playing online poker with real money til 4:30 in the morning and he would play in bed while I was trying to sleep before going to work at 5am and when he lost a big hand he'd get really angry and start screaming obscenities at the person in New York or Vegas or wherever.

Ugh! Glad to be rid of him!

the ex mrs. slacker would say she was too ashamed of me to bring me to company outings, i found out later she was banging her boss. sucks to be me

Wow, thats pretty shitty! I didn't invite my now ex to company functions cause he would always pick fights with me in front of my colleagues..but I wasn't banging my boss..thats just cruel. I'm sorry you had to go through that.