http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/feed http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/feed en-us Copyright (C) MDJunction.com. All rights reserved. Sat, 18 May 2013 18:16:15 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10652799-new-and-seriously-desperate#10690452 Please force yourself to eat, take some walks or run, look up at the clouds while your out, and get some sleep. These were the first steps in my healing process. Don't wait until you loose 20 lbs. and haven't slept for three days like I did. Try not to tell your daughter too much right now, wait until your emotions settle, then you will know the right things to say. Take care of yourself, and ignore his criticism of you. When someone is leaving you they often justify what they are doing by t... Sat, 18 May 2013 07:12:10 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10679330-hard-time-accepting#10689724 hi kevinmc i hope you are wrong becuese i i do belive in love and i want to find it again but i thhink you are right sexual desire is a closed second and there were the confusion is.... Fri, 17 May 2013 19:40:03 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/introductions-personal-stories/10687482-in-the-first-stages-of-divorce#10689710 I agreed with kevinmc heal your heart first, take care of your girl,and went you r happy with yourself you are going to find or it will find you you never know. and I talking about that special someone... Fri, 17 May 2013 19:31:27 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/introductions-personal-stories/10643118-new-here-22-and-newly-separated#10687522 Your story sounds very similar to mine, except I have a daughter involved. I too need closure since it came so sudden, like your husband he woke up and told me he no longer loved me. I felt like my world came crashing down on me full speed. I asked what I could do, I mentioned marriage or couples counseling and he said he wanted nothing. like you I am back at my moms, with no job to fall back on since I was a stay at home mom/wife. I am in the school and that's the only hope I have that my daugh... Thu, 16 May 2013 20:01:12 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10687462-going-through-the-first-stages-of-divorce#10687462 Hello everybody I am 23 years old and going through a divorce after 5 years of marriage. I had nobody to turn to since not many people go through divorce at this age so I am turning to online support. After 5 years of marriage my husband decided he no longer loved me and that we should separate. It came as a shock to me since I felt like things were ok, like any marriage things weren't perfect but I thought our arguments were something we would get through. My 1 year old daughter is the only thi... Thu, 16 May 2013 19:33:14 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10685354-4-months-3-weeks-separeted#10686228 Be careful. Don't try to help her anymore. Help yourself.... Thu, 16 May 2013 09:32:57 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/introductions-personal-stories/10433840-new-to-this-website#10685382 i'm 46 with 8 1/2 year together oh well i got dump and im like you i would like to be your friend chat and on the way we help each other(sorry i stole the last line)... Wed, 15 May 2013 22:29:13 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10672470-im-lost-and-i-dont-know-where-to-start#10682808 To all struggling with a BP spouse - there is a group here for Bipolar Spouses that has been extremely helpful to me. I had no idea about BP and how it had been affecting my marriage. I cried the first time I realized there were actually other people who had experienced the EXACT same things. And BP can be treated if the person does whatever it takes to stay well. Medication is a must . I gave been married 14 years today to an untreated BP man. Who self medicates with alcohol. I am trying to mo... Tue, 14 May 2013 21:20:42 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10678973-divorcing-a-bipolar-woman#10682692 cmfoster I did not mean anyone to think I was offended, I just don't want all to believe all people are like this when they have this illness. Like you said untreated and alcohol with BP are a terrible mix. And then there are people who like to use their illness as an excuse to act like a bad person and make poor choices. I am sorry that you guys are affected by this illness in such a horrible way. Like I said I went through a lot with my mom and I wouldn't doubt if she had this illness too but ... Tue, 14 May 2013 19:54:46 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10661332-cant-get-over-the-shock#10681601 Ok thanks... Tue, 14 May 2013 10:23:26 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10677537-i-ruined-my-marriage-because-of-bipolar#10677537 I was married 24yrs to the most wonderful girl, we grew up together and had three wonderful children, but since the beginning I was a horrible husband. Since having BP I used sex as my outlet, I cheated on several occassions and she still would for give me. but after 24yrs of her fighting to keep the marriage together, she finally gave up after we had a huge fight and everything that ever happened came out. once the genie was out of the bottle we could never put it back in. We have tried several... Sun, 12 May 2013 11:44:22 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10644359-anybody-out-there#10673310 Seems like this board doesn't get much action. Babycenter.com has boards with more activity so maybe they can help. I was going to post here, but it seems like not enough people look. But anyway here is a ((((hug)))). It is very hard.... Fri, 10 May 2013 09:58:14 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10669449-helpful-in-my-divorce#10669449 I know it sounds small but this youtube sister site,( i-youtube com ) really helped me when I needed it.. They send very helpful advice daily via text message about divorce situations. Hope this helps some of you..... Wed, 08 May 2013 16:13:54 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10551178-just-need-to-offload/limitstart/10#10669280 Well things have moved on, We told the kids.....seeing their faces crumple as they heard it, the worst moment of my parenting life. My wife and I had managed to stay close during the final days, with me offering some comfort as she became increasingly nervous. After signing the lease my wife suffered a breakdown, and agreed to get counseling. For a brief while she seemed to want to stay....plans were made to rebuild our relationship with the hope that the counseling would help her change her ... Wed, 08 May 2013 15:02:23 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10641432-trying-to-figure-out-who-i-really-am#10663675 First, please accept my condolences for the loss of your son and your husband. I can only imagine the pain you must be feeling. I am a 66 year old woman at the start of a divorce from my 85 year old husband, my second husband. My sister and my daughter keep asking me: what do you want? I wish I knew, but it is a good question to ask yourself. What do you want?... Mon, 06 May 2013 04:30:37 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10663668-divorcing-late-in-life#10663668 I am a 66 year old woman who has been married for 19 years to an 85 year old man. The second marrriage for both of us.He has been ill for many years and I have been taking care of him, working only part-time from home. I discovered a month ago by accident that he has been transferring all his assets to his children. He moved out to live with them two weeks ago. All of this was a total shock to me. He says he doesn't want a divorce and wants to start over one day and then angrily demands a sep... Mon, 06 May 2013 04:22:39 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10617489-accept-divorce-reality-but-need-emotional-support#10657118 I feel the same way. Never thought divorce would really happen to me!!... Thu, 02 May 2013 19:21:51 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/general-support/10656107-new-and-could-use-a-shoulder-to-lean-on#10656107 :( I really don't know where to begin. My husband wants a divorce, though I am not surprise because we have been living like roommates and friends then lovers for sometime now. I am a stay at home mother of two. I have a 11 year old boy and a 5 year old girl. My son has high functioning Autism and change is very difficult for him. I have depression, social anxiety and no job, which makes it all the more difficult. My husband is very supportive but is not in love with me an longer. He currently h... Thu, 02 May 2013 11:07:30 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/introductions-personal-stories/10646248-trying-to-get-past-my-divorce#10650506 I want to thank you both so much. It really helps having somebody to talk to that is going thru the same thing. At times i feel so alone and so lost. My family doesn't understand me because they are all happily married. They just want me to get over my ex. But it is the hardest thing i have ever faced.... Mon, 29 Apr 2013 16:28:12 -0700 http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/separation-divorce-discussions/introductions-personal-stories/10648352-husband-hit-me#10650147 I havent seen him since they put him in the police car and took him to jail. Even in court they had a victims ad go in my place. We have spoken by text and maybe 2 or 3 times by phone as im not comfortable talking to him on the phone. How do i feel about him right now.. . I love him. Im scared of him. There is a lot of anger and hurt. I wish i could make it all go awa. I guess my main issue is how do i not love him?? Because of what he did to me i wont go back to him but that doesnt make my fe... Mon, 29 Apr 2013 13:22:13 -0700