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05/28/2008 03:15 PM
foxyroxy1
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Unsure I was at the gym this morning and I was changing. I have gotten alot more comfortable doing that in front of everyone instead of running off to one of the little rooms. Well this morning I was being very detailed drying off because I was putting on my fentanyl patch there. I noticed about 5 ladies staring at me. I am not sure if its because I am overweight, my stretch marks, or my cutting scars. They were staring at my belly. My hand went strait to my scars to cover them and they all turned away. My self esteem went right down the tubes. I had some people tell me good things today so I am feeling a little beter, bit people shouldnt stare!!!Sad Sad
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05/28/2008 04:37 PM  Top
Storm6751
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it does make it hard i hear you on that but i usually just say if your so interested you have to stare then why not ask me???

some say sorry and dont and some do i just say its my coping mechanism and then leave it at that...

who cares what they say we are all self harmers here and in tom price mostly everyone knows i am too and i dont care they take all of me or none of me...

you will be okay.... glad to hear your getting nice and fit great step for those endorphines to get kicking....

BIG HUGS

STORM

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05/29/2008 06:46 AM  Top
pixiedust430
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Hey hun. I remember the first time I was called out on my scaars. I felt like cutting right then. How dare he call me a freak. Anyone who stares is just ignorant and scared. They are scared cause of the unknown. There are enough people bringing awareness to what we do. It is so taboo people just stare cause they don't know what else to do. Now I just explain that I chose this like other people choose crying at sleeping and ice cream or overeating. I wore the first pair of shorts in public since that guy. No one noticed and it was at the beach. Picture it, 400+ scars all in rows of seven. Not one looked. People will get over it.
~Wishing you butterfly mornings and wildflower nights~*~*~*~*~

I have no medical training and give advice purely on personal experience. This in no way replaces proper medical attention.
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Health Topics: Fentanyl, Overweight, Stretch Marks
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