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12/06/2009 09:18 AM

Raped and tortured but he won't eave me alone

Pickled

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Hay there everyone. It's been three years since i managed to free myself of the guy that raped and tortured me for six months but somehow he always finds me.

He hasn't raped me in years but he still feels me up and reminds me of what he can do.

It's just all getting a bit to much, but telling the Police isn't an option.

12/06/2009 10:34 AM Top

hiall

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Hello Pickled and welcome to the group. I am sorry about what happened to you in the past. The police is not an option? Why? This guy is still abusing you? There must be a way to free you from this abuser for good.

Pickled, please use the forum to VENT, heal and make new friends. You have lots of support here.

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12/07/2009 06:31 PM Top

YorkieLove

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Pickled, why not get a restraining order?

It must be very scary to have to deal with his behavior. You deserve better than this. You deserve to be protected.

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12/08/2009 09:35 AM Top
Lisal22 Posts: 476 Member	Hi Pickled, Welcome to the group. I am so sorry that this is happening to you. Maybe you feel that you cannot go to the police but you can go to therapy. I know that there is help for you out there. You deserve a peaceful life. We're here for you. Lisa Previous discussions I participated in: he took my life when he raped me abusive parents make my rape worse! Teen Rape

12/08/2009 07:06 PM Top

Lilibit58

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Welcome to the group pickled,

Some just like the power they get from it. I know it's scary but can you tell him to stop? Stand up for yourself in some way. Its awful that you have to keep reliving it.

How is he getting close to you? Do you move in the same social circle? Try changing friends or do they know? If so would someone protect you by staying by you? Sorry for all the questions.

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