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06/28/2012 04:05 AM
mem625

Hello everybody,

First, I hope I'm posting this in the right place.

If that's not the case, I ask to admins and mods to move the thread where they think it'll fit properly.

Second, I received very bad news this morning.

As few of you already know, I suffered an ordeal after an ordeal due to the fact I reported rape after being raped multiple times by my ex boyfriend.

I was also denied any kind of counselling and therapy everywhere because, in few words there are no rape crisis centres from Aberdeen to the northest point of Scotland.

For the ones who aren't informed about how big this area of Scotland is (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Highlands_lowlands.png), please consider that it covers 10.316 square miles, an area as big as the whole state of Massachusetts.

From October, any raped and abused woman in this area will be left without any help and support because the Scottish Government, cutting 50% of these charities funding, will force them to close down.

I opened a petition in their favour, posting the link in case you'd like to sign it:

http://www.change.org/petitions/scottish-government-stop- cutting-the-50-of-funding-to-rape-and-abuse-charities

It's very important that we keep getting help and support from them because there are no official counselling services in the Highlands provided by the NHS (National Health System). In few words, from October onwards, if we need support we'll have to pay for it, using private counselling and therapy.

That also means that nobody will do it (economy is very poor up here, mainly agriculture and tourism) and that will also cut down the rape reports.

Maybe that's how Scottish Government wants to solve the problem that there are only 3% of convictions after rape trials. It's worth noticing that only 10% of the rape report get to a trail.

Well, easily done... NO rape reports, NO hassle to convict rapists!

Thanks for your attention ladies and gentlemen :*

Merl xx

Post edited by: MerlinScot, at: 06/28/2012 04:20 AM

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06/28/2012 09:50 AM  Top
clemaire
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I just signed it Merlin. That is terrible news!
Do you need help now over the phone? call RAINN www.rainn.com (1.800.656.4673 | Free 24/7. When calling, make sure to ask if they are confidential)


Find a local crises center here:
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06/28/2012 02:05 PM  Top
mem625

Thanks Clemaire!! xxx

I know it's terrible, like we were not lacking counselling services and Sarc centres already!!

Shame on the Scottish government!! Sad


06/29/2012 11:53 PM  Top
Izzy87
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I can sign even though I am not a Scotland citizen?
I am not a doctor or therapist, just a person who cares.

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06/30/2012 02:05 PM  Top
mem625

Of course you can, Izzy!! Smile

I'm collecting signatures all over the world!! That's a big violation of women's rights and the more we can spread the word the better Smile

Thanks xxx

Merl


06/30/2012 07:05 PM  Top
hiall
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I sent your link to a my local sexual assault center. I wonder if we send it to rain maybe they would forward to all of their contacts? Worth a try.....
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07/01/2012 02:21 PM  Top
clemaire
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I'm trying to get my facebook friends to sign it. 6 so far. I only sent it to the ones that know what happened.
Do you need help now over the phone? call RAINN www.rainn.com (1.800.656.4673 | Free 24/7. When calling, make sure to ask if they are confidential)


Find a local crises center here:
http://centers.rainn.org/

I am a survivor! You are not alone. Please PM me anytime.

I am a normal person who believes in helping and supporting survivors. I am not a doctor or therapist.

Previous discussions I participated in:
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hi.

07/01/2012 02:48 PM  Top
mem625

thanks guys!!! I posted the link on RAINN facebook page so I hope someone decided to sign it. I've no other way to contact them because I can't phone them from here. You're all really special to me, what you're doing really means a lot to me. Sending lots of hugs xxx

07/01/2012 08:04 PM  Top
Shayndel
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SignedWink

07/02/2012 03:43 AM  Top
mem625

Thanks Shayndel xx
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