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06/11/2010 06:44 PM

can it be rape if it feels good

KaosKatt
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Matt's danni's uncle.....he's married. Matt and I have enjoyed a flirtatious friendship...

Today he came over. I left the door unlocked because i was taking a nap and he said he'd just wake me.

When I woke up he was naked and snuggling me. It felt really good, with my fiance leaving me I've been vulnerable and just wanted some affection.

I knew he wanted to have sex but then...he's always wanted to have sex.

He started petting me and it was amazing, mostly non sexual and just reassured me I was pretty and desirable.

We got up and went to the store since I needed a new cell charger. At the store he lead me away from the baby clothes by my hair.....that was.....arousing for me

When we got home we got naked again and lay down. He told me to just take a nap and he'd wake me up in a few hours.

He started petting me non sexually then sexually, i pushed his hands away a few times but I really just wanted the attention.

Then he picked me up, put me on my hands and knees and pulled me back...I told him no but he just pulled me back into postion..I told him no again and he penentrated me about half away. He cam from that and left

I'm./...not sure what to do. Do I tell Danni? Do I call the cops...

We both promised to keep it a secret and cuddled for a few afterwards but.....I dunno what to do

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06/11/2010 06:51 PM
KaosKatt
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please help me........I'm so confused

06/11/2010 07:07 PM
HiddenButterfly
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So sorry for the pain you have been caused. Yes that would be considered rape. You told him No several times and he still presisted to continue doing what he wanted. That is forcing himself on you. So sorry for this all to hit at once.

Brenda


06/11/2010 07:11 PM
KaosKatt
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.....i don't know what to do now

06/11/2010 07:44 PM
Katy89
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I went through a lot of this too. I was raped 2 months ago. I was dirnking and smoing pot alone with the guy. I barely fought back and enjoyed it as well (or at least thought I did). But I have worked through a lot of the guilt. It's not as hopeless as it feels. I always had the rape fantasy, I was always embaressed and ashamed of it, I never knew it was common. So when I was raped I had no idea what was happening to me mentally. It was horrid feeling thinking I enjoyed it. It ate me alive for every single second everyday for 7 straight weeks. I know what you're feeling. PM anytime.
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