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02/19/2009 02:44 AM

no one cares about my pregnancy

katieno1cares
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my whole family knows about me bein pregnant.im 17 years old.and my sister is jealous of me so0o she went and talked all this negative stuff about me and told everyone.now my whole family is making mean and snotty remarks to me and about me.the only person i have is my boyfriend.i really would love 2 talk 2 someone about this...no1 understands.
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02/19/2009 06:27 AM
Leah90

wow im very sorry to hear that. i was in a similar situation. My family was VERY surprised that i was pregnant. They never thought i was "that way." So then they all started making snotty remarks and everything, thinking i just slept with EVERYONE. But the help of your boyfriend will go ALOONNNNGGG way for you...lol. <3

02/19/2009 07:57 AM
EricaM1990
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I know its hard with out the support and understanding of your family, but a lot of girls/woman dont even have the support of the father... so be happy for that and even if you didnt you still have your little one to come who will love you no matter what. Screw what everyone else thinks as long as you and your baby are happy.

And just know you can talk to any of the girls/woman in the group about ANYTHING. And if you havent joined the teen pregnancy group on MDJunction you should. Twice as many girls in there and all of them more likely to understand your situation being teenagers themselves.

and you can always message me! I love to talk :]

<3


02/19/2009 11:32 AM
sweetpea012607

I know how you feel. I didn't have the luxury of telling my family about my first born that I lost at 21 weeks, and now, even though they know, they don't recognize that he even existed.

So feel free to pm me if you need, I'm a good listener.


02/19/2009 04:15 PM
Brie07
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Hey there i know how you feel. Im 19 and 14 wks preg. My mom and my sister would not talk to me and now its pretty much my whole family. The father of my baby left. Said it was too stressful for him. So now i only have one person who is there for me. But im very sorry that this has happened to you. But if you ever need to talk im here.

02/19/2009 04:19 PM
sweetpea012607

I wish the very best for you and your baby Brie. I sincerely do.

02/19/2009 06:28 PM
Brie07
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Thank you so much Sweetpea!

02/19/2009 06:30 PM
sweetpea012607

You're welcome my dear Brie. Please enjoy your pregnancy.

03/13/2009 08:10 AM
EricaM1990
EricaM1990  
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Hey there Brie,

How is everything going lately?

<3eri


03/13/2009 09:12 AM
Brie07
Brie07  
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Well my family still will not talk to me. But have met some amazing people at one of the parenting classes my doctor sent me to. So i guess i can say things are doing good. Oh and i just found out that the father of my baby got his new girlfriend pregnant as well. But i dont know if he is still with her or not. I hope is because this is something no one should have to go through alone!! Thanks for asking
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