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11/29/2011 06:26 PM
bitty0816
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Many of us are fortunate enough to have friends who are a consistent part of our lives throughout all our ups and downs. However, sometimes others we consider friends appear to enter, then depart from our lives for reasons we try to, but don't always, understand. This piece nicely explains the flow of people in and out of our lives.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.

Then people come into your life for a SEASON, b ecause your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

I absolutely love this poem. It really puts things into perspective for me and a lot of my situations. ENJOY!!! Smile

Britt

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*~Life isn't about waiting for the storm...it's about dancing in the rain~*
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11/29/2011 08:36 PM  Top
happycampc

Britt, thanks for sharing that, it speaks the truth in volumes. Welcome to SE&PT, glad to have you here. Look forward to getting to know you. Hugs, Ann Smile

11/29/2011 08:57 PM  Top
bitty0816
Posts: 28
Member

Thanks Ann! I hope to get to know you Smile
*~Life isn't about waiting for the storm...it's about dancing in the rain~*

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11/30/2011 10:34 AM  Top
oregonnative
oregonnative
 
Posts: 5126
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Hi bitty, so happy to see you post that. I recieved same over a year ago in an email from a lifelong friend, and it really helped me to understand better and to accept the losses I have experienced over a lifetime.

Thank you! Smile

Karen

Shoot for the moon...if you miss it, reach out and grab a star.
Karen

I am not a medical professional. All comments are based on my own experience and/or from articles I have read.

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11/30/2011 07:30 PM  Top
DorisAnn
DorisAnn
 
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Thanks for sharing--I loved this post!

Hugs

Doris

DEE

Believe with all of your heart that you will do what you were made to do.---Orison Swett Marden

12/01/2011 01:02 AM  Top
Clarita
Clarita
 
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Britt, Thanks for sharing this beautiful poem with us- true words that adore with all my heart- so happy you shared them with us all here.

Gentle grateful hugs, Clarita Smile


12/01/2011 08:01 PM  Top
bitty0816
Posts: 28
Member

I'm glad you all enjoyed it Smile It has definitely helped me through these hard times!
*~Life isn't about waiting for the storm...it's about dancing in the rain~*

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is this from ptsd?
Don't call it love.
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