Ok so the guy i was seeing recently, made lame attempt to get back together with me last weekend.... We called it off a month ago because he decided he didnt see us as having any future together, But then sunday he texted that he missed my company. So Sunday I finally stood my ground with a guy for the first time ever in my life. I did this knowing full well, that it meant we would not get back together. I did it because even tho i liked him a whole lot, even tho the mere idea he might be interested made me want to run to him, i needed to say my piece. I needed to treat myself with respect. The phone text conversation we had on sunday was weird so i sent an e-mail monday to say basically i like you and miss you too, but that does not get us anywhere. This is what I need from a person and this is how i want to be treated so unless your willing to do that we don't have anything to talk about. I wrote off the idea of ever seeing him again. I am so proud of myself, because i've never had the strength or self confidence to do anything like that before, i was always so afraid of pushing guys i like away. I cant thank all of you here enough for helping me see what i'm worth and deserve. yesterday he contacted me saying that if i was willing to give him a second chance he said he would do everything he can to be a better boyfriend give me what i needed in the relationship. Because i treated myself with respect, he treated me with respect. And now i have a chance for a fresh start in a power ballanced relationship.... and i'm taking it.... and it feels really good. I think this is how a relationship is supposed to feel. Post edited by: madgardener, at: 04/15/2010 01:08 PM |
