Spencer, echo all that April has said. Just been to a Christmas market where found an awesome book for just 50pence called,"Positive Thinking"- by Vera Peiffer. As reading this just wonder if you are the kind of man who is always helping others- outgoing yet lonely simultaneously? It says in here, in this book, that that kind of man may be lonely as he seems so confidant that he either he must not be single so why even bother flirting with him or that they will never be able to live up to your standards. Just wonder if that is why you maybe finding it difficult to find the right lady? Here is something else want to share from this book with you Spencer. Script I like myself and others. I deserve the best in life and I am going out to get it. My happiness is important to me. I create my own future. I am on my way to becoming the best possible person I can be. Everything I need for my happiness is already in me. I am complete. I am a harmonious person. I am in harmonoy with the world around me. A great sense of serenity spreads through me and I feel calm and relaxed in everything I do. I attract everything that is good like a bit magnet. My self confidence increases every day. I am an attractive person. A great sense of love pervades my being. I love my life and follow my inner voice, which guides me always. My ideal partner is already waiting for me and I will met him or her in the right place, at the right time. Spencer, hope some of that has helped you. Keep smiling is very good advice from April. Everyone looks more attractive when they smile. Keep you head up- walk tall yet not too tall. Women are not attracted to lions or mouses so not good to be either too confident or under confident. When you achieve the balance you are super attractive! You will be fine- trust us! Warm wishes, Clarita  |
. Go gentle on your good self. Take time out to build yourself up sure. Just because of one or two women ( the number matters not, truly) may have rejected you in past is not relevant as one day you will find a woman worthy of you/ your equal. Rejections do not define us/whom we are- if we choose to not let them define us. Failings do not make us a failure- we all mess up from time to time, so big deal. We must move on from them- give our fine selves a break. We must start to talk plus feel positively about ourself. We may have made mistakes in who we chose to fall in love with or even in our attitude/s yet we must put the past in the past. We can choose better in this present moment which will make of our present a real present/gift ensuring that our Now/future is a far happier one. 
