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06/22/2011 11:03 AM
Priyeni
Priyeni
 
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We did not need to fight for our independence like India did, we gained it peacefully in 1948.

Our tea is better known as 'Ceylon Tea' still, we were Ceylon before we became Sri Lanka. We were colonized for centuries; first by the Portugese, then the Dutch & lastly the British.

We were rich in spices & gems; the Portugese & Dutch were mainly interested in trading & as such were mostly in the coastal areas.

The British saw the potential in this fertile island & made inroads. They started with cocoa plantations, went on to coffee & then tea which became a lucrative business. Upto 1978 there were British owned tea companies & at that time, our socialist government took over all tea plantations, leaving owners with 50 acres.

It is in one of these 50 acres that I live in - Gomera (pvt) Estate.

Please let me know what your interested in, that'll make it easier for me to continue.

Priyeni

I'm not a doctor so I can't comment on yr meds /physical pain & symptoms but I'm a good listener & will be always there if you need to unburden /vent.
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06/23/2011 03:47 AM  Top
Jupiterjane
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What's the population and how large is the island? What are the most common jobs? Are there a lot of poor people?
Sometimes as writers we worry too much about creating a masterpiece when we should just be thankful the words flow at all.

06/23/2011 09:00 AM  Top
oregonnative
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Good morning Priyeni, How are you this fine morning? I'd be interested in hearing about the social customs and mores. Also curious about how modernized or not it is. Is your dress traditional?

LOL, guess that's enough questions at one time.

Shoot for the moon...if you miss it, reach out and grab a star.
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I am not a medical professional. All comments are based on my own experience and/or from articles I have read.

06/23/2011 11:00 AM  Top
Priyeni
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Instead of giving u short replies, I plan to do another piece in a few days incorporating answers to yr queries - is that acceptable?

such quick responses from both of u has fired me. I'll try to get in some photos too. Thanks for the encouragement.

Priyeni

I'm not a doctor so I can't comment on yr meds /physical pain & symptoms but I'm a good listener & will be always there if you need to unburden /vent.

06/28/2011 01:34 AM  Top
Priyeni
Priyeni
 
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Post edited by: Priyeni, at: 06/28/2011 05:53 PM
Priyeni

I'm not a doctor so I can't comment on yr meds /physical pain & symptoms but I'm a good listener & will be always there if you need to unburden /vent.

06/28/2011 01:40 AM  Top
Priyeni
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Is anyone reading about the terrible human rights battle going on – UN, human rights activists vs Sri Lanka?? Our govt. denies the video shown by channel 4, UK, titled "killing fields" but it has caused international attention.

Attaching some poems I wrote before the war ended 2 yrs ago which will give you an idea of how we, as a nation suffered irrespective of race/caste/ religion.

Demography

The island surrounded by the Indian ocean is: approx. 25,000 sq.miles

Population is approx. 20 million of which:

72% are Sinhala Buddhist

Tamils - 12% ; Muslims – 5%; Others – 1% (Malays, Chinese, Burghers)

Christians are only 2% approx.

Caste system

The Sinhalese & Tamils have a caste system although there are people who take note of it, there are lots who do not bother about being high caste or low. But not so long ago, in the early 20th century, it was bad eg. Low caste people could only enter a high caste person’s house through the back door, removing their foot wear.

Horoscopes

Arranged marriages are common here; when that happens the caste & race are important factors. Most Sri Lankans have horoscopes & Buddhists will never marry without matching the horoscopes of the couple - this is a science which is somewhat accurate. it warns people when bad periods are ahead.

National dress

our national dress is the saree – lots wear it the way Indians do (probably most of you would have seen that drape) but the uniquely Sri Lankan saree is the ‘osariya’. I’ve attached a pic of my daughter as a bride wearing the traditional bridal saree & jewellery. I took it all from here; she married an US citizen & the wedding was in VT.

The men wear a white sarong & long white kurta type of shirt but even though it’s ideal for our climate most men wear western attire ie trousers & shirts & boil in suits on formal occasions lots of women wear saree to work & for formal occasions but most of the younger women wear western attire. You’ll be surprised to see people even in rural villages in skirts, jeans.

We are quite modern - short hair, tinted etc. there are night clubs etc in Colombo city patronized by a a very small percentage of wealthy people.

Poverty

There’s much poverty. The younger generation refuse to farm, so we have ended up importing even rice. The tea pluckers /labour force on tea / rubber / coconut plantations are old. The young adults all want white collared jobs as most of them have studied upto High school level. We have a huge unemployment problem with thousands of graduates waiting for their dream jobs while there is a severe shortage of carpenters, masons, plumbers etc. the general attitude is that these are low ranking jobs although they are highly paid. There is absolutely no dignity of labour – how that has come about I don’t know, I think perhaps a legacy left behind by the British.

I’m not sure if this is of interest, I'll only know if you send me a comment.

My home

I’m attaching some photos of my home & surrounds.

Tongue

Post edited by: Priyeni, at: 06/28/2011 02:33 AM

Priyeni

I'm not a doctor so I can't comment on yr meds /physical pain & symptoms but I'm a good listener & will be always there if you need to unburden /vent.

06/28/2011 02:50 AM  Top
Priyeni
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Impact of the war - some poems

Through a Lense - Sri Lanka, 18 May 2009

By Priyeni de Silva McLeod

So we’ve won the war

and celebrate,

as sad, desperate people

Flee in terror.

We don’t see them run to freedom,

cheering liberty

But plodding wearily

to the unknown.

Wounded, bloody people

helped along by those unhurt,

whose hurting hearts we cannot see.

A son carries an emaciated father on bony shoulder,

An old woman falls, yet drags on her haunches,

Sand fries on her palms, she licks deliriously

“Amma no, that’s not hot spicey gram”

A hungry baby wails, a plaintive wail

Pulling, sucking at a withered breast.

They carry what bits they can

And deep memories,

As they walk away with blank expressions.

Too tired, too thirsty in the scorching sun.

While their homes go up in flames behind.

Images we see

but we know there’s much more

anguish and suffering unseen,

because they were not captured

through a lense.

Sri Lanka , today we celebrate

Peace not had for three decades.

It’s our communal responsibility

To not forget but feel the agony

of our people who have lost their all,

now languishing in camps,

Feel with compassion and with love

the pain of people left bereft

by a self-professed liberator,

A gutless chief behind human shields

Of people whom he claimed to save.

They are now destitute with

no hopes, no dreams,

Disillusioned.

In joyful celebration

Let’s not forget

the human suffering.

That indeterminate price

we pay for peace.

* On events in Muttur where a helpless Muslim community caught in cross-fire shuttled from Muttur to Kantalai to Muttur and then scattered 17 aid-workers who came from elsewhere were found shot dead, a mystery unsolved up to date.

4 August 2006 in Muttur

By Priyeni de Silva McLeod

Panic in Muttur.

A silent procession wends its way,

Bundles slung, babes on hips,

pots balancing on their heads,

to Kantalai,

With haunted expressions

Seen before, across the world

through endless time,

The pathos of leaving a loved home.

Secure in Muttur?

Return to a lie,

of unsettled disputes,

and battles.

Oppression in Muttur.

Bewildered people

Run anywhere, run somewhere,

Run from Muttur.

To make-shift homes.

Stay there, die there,

chasing elusive safety and peace.

In Muttur,

Mystery shrouds

Seventeen massacred bodies,

They only came to help.

Agony of Buttala

“Red hot steel balls pierced through the thin tin body of the bus”

reported the Sunday Leader of 20 January 2008.

By Priyeni de Silva McLeod

Some taking harvest

to sell for higher price,

Some to hospital

for more care perhaps,

Some visiting kin,

Lovers’ tryst maybe,

Fascinating tales,

Not news-worthy,

For in that bus were

Just the poor and lowly.

Indifferent to passing scenes,

Dozing - rare morning luxury.

Two women, their mouths stained red

Chatted, betel lumped in cheeks.

A baby wailed for its mother’s breast,

And the Claymore exploded.

“Red hot steel balls pierced through the thin tin body of the bus”

Red hot steel balls ripped through thin bodies of helpless people.

Surely thin.

For in Buttala the kind who go by bus

Drink plain tea, a lick of sugar on palm,

Eat rice or manioc and sambal.

Terrified travellers cowered;

Four relentless ‘Tigers’ shot.

Red hot steel balls pierced fatally,

Twenty seven in all.

Thin bodies, thin tin and large pools of blood

Remained.

Half hour later the same four heroes,

(So called in Eelam),

Came upon some farmers, toiling in the sun

Coaxing the hard, dry earth to yield.

“Duwapalla”, AK 47s raised,

The peasants ran, not fast enough.

“Red hot steel balls pierced thin bodies”,

Six dead, others wounded.

Sun-scorched thin bodies sprawled in large wet patches,

Harsh earth, soaked in blameless blood

Remained.

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Post edited by: Priyeni, at: 06/28/2011 05:51 PM

Post edited by: Priyeni, at: 06/28/2011 05:59 PM

Priyeni

I'm not a doctor so I can't comment on yr meds /physical pain & symptoms but I'm a good listener & will be always there if you need to unburden /vent.

06/28/2011 01:11 PM  Top
mem2121

Your description of Sri Lanka shows the love you have for your country. It is obviously not easy there but you hope for better days. In the United States we too often turn inwards and seem to have very little clue about what is going on elsewhere.

Thanks for making me just a wee bit smarter.

Steve


06/28/2011 04:43 PM  Top
Glademan
 
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I would love to visit your Country one day. I have visited many countries around the world but never stayed at a tea plantation. It sounds beautiful.

What a great place to paint and write. As I drive through Miami doing tours, I often point out people who are painting next to our scenic sites. Sometimes we forget how beautiful our own city is until we point it out to visitors.

I am not a Doctor, but I play one on the internet.

Before you insult a man, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, when you insult him, you'll be a mile away, and have his shoes.

06/28/2011 05:36 PM  Top
Priyeni
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Thnx for the comments. I'll be away in Colombo for ab out a week, so u wont hear from me.

unfortunately the photos & poems attached haven't come thru, will try to figure it out when I rtn.

Priyeni

I'm not a doctor so I can't comment on yr meds /physical pain & symptoms but I'm a good listener & will be always there if you need to unburden /vent.
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