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Parents of Bipolar Kids ForumsGeneral & SupportMy son wrote a death letter...
02/04/2010 04:43 PM
jakers
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Well we've been so happy to see such positive results from the Seroquel, that the doctor decided we try and remove the Tenex he was first put on. So we decreased his dose just 1/2 pill and a week later his behavior became very impulsive, he was hitting us at home, just being mean. Then I get a call from the principal that my son gave a note to a younger student telling him to "Die!" and such.

So since my son was only in 3rd grade, he was told to write a note of apology to the child. Had he been in 4th, it would have been an automatic suspension. This all coming from a kid who has never acted out in school. In fact he just won an award this month for "treating others as you want to be treated". So obviously, he has been going through a mood swing this week with the decrease of meds. My son has no idea why he did it. It was just impulsive behavior. He even said that he wanted to go back to his old medicine dose since he wasn't feeling right inside.

This makes me feel very sad today. Another moment to realize that my son is experiencing a real disease inside, that can have serious consequences in the future. And as my son explained today, "it wasn't me", he still will have to face the serious consequences of his impulsive behavior. I know the heart of this child is one that is loving and kind. I really hate this disease today, and feel very alone.

Mom of 3 boys, my oldest son (9 yrs. old) has a mood disorder.
Check out my blog at: http://mysonhas2brains.blogspot.com/
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02/04/2010 07:34 PM  Top
owutatangledweb
owutatangledwebPosts: 2761
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Oh, I am so sad for you Jakers. That is heartbreaking. It must be very scary for him. I hate this disease EVERY day. I just try to live through it day by day. Imagine what it must be like for our children though!! Sad It is so hard to watch my brilliant daughter behave, well, alot less than brilliantly. For me, the worst part of this illness is trying to get - and keep - the impulsivity under control. You just never know when their judgment can be trusted.

I am sad for you...and for me...and for our kids. You are NOT alone. You are never alone if you come here. Tomorrow is always another day. It may just take awhile for the med adjustment to level off in his system. Definitely give the pdoc a call okay? <HUGS> Smile and best wishes.

"Knowledge is the antidote to fear." - Ralph Waldo Emerson -

I stole this from someone else in one of these forums - but it fits! ;)


I am the mother of a 21 year old BP daughter (whom at the moment, I say is "in remission" with the help of Lithium, biweekly therapy for 4.5 years, and an intensive outpatient course of Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT).)

02/04/2010 11:12 PM  Top
tuppycheeks
Posts: 8
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That's great though that your child can "feel" the difference without the meds and that your child doesn't like the feeling of loss of control!

Hopefully you will be able to sort out the meds and get your child to where they are feeling comfortable again.

GOod luck!


01/27/2012 11:55 AM  Top
carolinecc
carolinecc
 
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I can totally relate my friend. I agree how hard it is to see our kids hurting inside. It kills me sometimes, but I just keep hanging on and prying my daughter will get better. I know that you son is a survivor. you are not alone!! cc
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