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07/15/2008 09:42
sp1076
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I just joined this group in order to get some kind of help as to what is going on with me. I seem to have alot of the symptoms of NES and don't know what to do about it. I heard about it on 20/20 or something like that and have been trying desperately to tone up and get fit. The problem is I keep eating in the middle of the night and feel like I am out of control and have no will power what so ever. Can someone please break this thing down for me and offer me some suggestions. Thanks!

Sandra

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08/10/2008 21:59
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OMG I had no idea that other people did this....It used to be really bad...now I only do it when I am very stressed...

Peanut butter is like a drug to me and sometimes I can't have it in my house. Or things like perogies...or things like cookies. I can't have them in my house either. I have to make a conscious decision that I am going to eat cetain foods then get them out of my house if I do want to indulge. I find that I hardly eat in the morning. I try but it is difficult. No matter what I do.

I used to be so ashamed of eating in the night...half the time I would wake up halfway through stuffing a very loaded p&J into my mouth...It has caused problems with loosing weight. I noticed though, that as I dropped my weight it tended to lessen. Now it happens and sometimes I can catch it...and drink a lot of milk!...other times I will realize that I have eaten...cause there are signs of it...I have even brought things into my bed before...lol

Weird and wonderful me...

Pattii

Those who hear not the music think the dancers mad.

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08/12/2008 17:10
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patti, so you dont do it as much anymore? how did you lessen it?

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08/15/2008 15:32
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I still struggle with it when I am very stressed. Sometimes I really think it has to do with an over active brain...we need sleep and I found that untill I took something to make me sleep, (first a sleeping pill then they put me on serequel for the bipolar and that makes me sleep)that I would wake up frequently...more so anyway then I do now. I find the worst part of it for me is to eat in the mornings or afternoons. I have to make myself eat then, so that I am not really hungry at night. But sometimes even that doesn't work. What I started to do before I had meds, was to drink a lot of water or milk before I slept. Then when I woke up in the night, I also had to pee, smiles, and that woke me up a little more, and I made better choices if I was infact going to eat. I try to drink a lot instead and not have trigger foods in my cupboard. If you have good snack food around...really good foods in your fridge and cupboard, then you don't feel as bad as if you eat a doz cookies or three peanutbutter laden toasts.

The hardest part of this is the weight gain that occurs when I am eating at night. I find that it is usually durring a time when I am not exercising either...mostly it happens when I am in a down cycle...more depressed than manic.

I hope this helps a little.

You need to talk about it more, and figure out what you are thinking and feeling and what foods you are drawn to. Knowlege is power and when we feel powerful, we feel less vunerable to whats out there.

Let me know if I can be anymore help

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Pattii

Those who hear not the music think the dancers mad.

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08/15/2008 15:33
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The other thing that helped...was telling my partner at the time...it freed me of the guilt of hidden eating...

At least somewhat...smiles

Pattii

Those who hear not the music think the dancers mad.

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10/03/2008 14:22
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Confession time...

I was living with a bunch of roommates years back and one of my roommates made a huge cake the night before to take to her family's house for a birthday. It was laying out on the kitchen table. She woke up the next morning to find 3/4 of the cake gone and crumbs all over the place, on the table and on the floor and even in the bathroom. She freaked out asking everyone in the house who ate the cake and WHY on earth would they leave such a mess!!! I didn't think I did it...but apparently I had gotten up in the middle of the night and dove into the cake because I found crumbs in my bed. I nearly passed out of embarrassment, shame and guilt. I don't think I ever fessed up to it but to this day it haunts me......

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