Miscarriage Support Group

Unfortunately at 8 weeks I miscarried once again. My husband and I were both devastated. I tried to "shrug"

it off and did not do what I did in the past I did not stay in bed for a week or two and cry. I cried of course but I tried to not do it constantly and immediately fostered 3 puppies to keep my mind off of things.

Now 11 weeks later I finally got my first period since that only last 3 days and im having pregnancy symptoms. I am scared s***less. I do not want to be pregnant again this soon.

When I miscarried the last time they finally figured out what the issue is. Basically (I cannot remember the long term for it) I clot too much and the blood does not get through the placenta once it attatches to the baby causing it to die a slow death.

I am having nightmares and everything. I have that pang now whenever one of my friends talk about their pregnancy 3 of them got pregnant the same time I did!

I can't help but wonder if I had insisted on blood tests after my second miscarriage if I could have prevented this. I cannot talk to my husband about it cause he is bi-polar and more often than not in a bad phase of his illness.

So when I joined here for a bi-polar spouse group and found this one I was so relieved. I finally have people who understand what I am going through that I can talk to.

God bless this group.

Since you clot so easily, have you asked about something you can take that will help the blood flow more easily to your baby? That would be my first starting point.

How did your husband handle the loss? I know you said he was devastated, but how did he react?

If you need me, I am here. Message me or leave a post.

-Hope

Thanks for the reply though. Your great

is there a medication they can give you

we are so happy to have you and welcome