Miscarriage Support Group

brightstar,

I am so sorry for your hurt and pain. I remember the same feeling not wanting to get out of bed and just wanting to be left alone. We are here for you and know im always just a pm away you are not alone just remember that also know how you are feeling is how we all felt and or are feeling we are all at different stages of our grieving process and always here for one another.

Hugs Mary

Hello,

The loss of life is a great loss. When I lost my little one it was the hardest birth I ever had. The idea that my little one was dead broke my heart.

Learn not to blame yourself or your spouse. Don't ask why because that is a cruel question.

It is ok to have loved your little one. loved learning when you were pregnant and going to have a little one, loving the little one as it grew inside of you.

It is ok to love and it is ok to want to keep loving your little one. Their spirit will always be with you. becoming a mom is hard and special but hard when you lose your little one because your arms are empty but your heart full of the want and love for the lost little one.

I still cry for my little one and it's ok and it's been 22 years but i still miss her. I cry get up and know i still have purpose in my life stay strong and do what I can.

i hope you can find your inner strength and purpose. this journey is not easy , life is not easy but we can fill it by making days good and celebrating and making days special. I try to do that for me and others. may your journey lead to strength and peace into joy.

I had one of those days today. Hubby dragged me up and encouraged me to get up and eat dinner with him and mom and brother. I managed to do it...it my jammies..mind you. But i tried. Then i tried to watch tv but the controller was so far away and their was a pregnant woman on tv..really wanted to change channel..but hubby was too "busy" to hand me the remote so i got up and retreated to my room again.im very sensitive. Hugs to all...thanks for reading.

So very very sorry to hear this im also having a bad time you are in my prayers

thanks bright satar, need all the prayers i can get. I only see my life getting worse...no future.

aim always here if u need to talk or vent or whatever....

Post edited by: Mishy, at: 06/21/2012 12:06 PM

I would love to talk but i cant find the words yet i dont no why or what is wrong when i try to my mind goes blank your friend michelle

I miscarried 5.5 years ago and it still takes a toll on me some days. You can get through this and know that chances are something was wrong with the development of the baby that neither of you had control over. It just happens and it's devastating, but in most cases necessary. Big hugs to you and I am sure that you will go on to have many healthy pregnancies beyond this tragedy.