Miscarriage Support Group

hi..i am the mom of a beautiful little girl...that was stillborn at 37 weeks...my dr would not listen to me.thought he knew best..she was 8 pounds 7 oz... 23 1/2 " long...my hopes and dreams died with her...i was told my contraction were not strong enough to dialate me right...her heart beat was flutteing.the only way to fix it was delivey..but at 37 weeks the dr wouldnt even think of it...by the time i got a dr to listen in a nothe state she was gone..my heart was broken..my life not living..i miss her sooooo much..for years i didnt want another baby..couldnt deal with the fear of loseing another one like that...she was born august 3,2007... My son gabriel was born 10-15-2009...fear was a major factor on why i chose a c section a tubal..but now hes 2 1/2 and i wish i didnt get a tubal..and know i will never have the chance to hve another baby again...my son is my life..but i miss my daugter sooo much kt hurts deep inside...will i ever get ove this pain...and is there a way without spendimg thousands of dollars to get pregnant again

I to had my tubes tied after having my twins when are now 15. Dr. Beger in Chapel hill North Carolina was my life saver. He was able to reverse my tubal. I have a 5 year old to prove it. If you want to check out his site it's tubal-reversal.net NOt sure if this will help you and all dr's say it's permentent, but 99% of the time he is able to reverse them. I only have 1 tube and it's short, but god has given me a beautiful son from having it. and I have had 3 recent misscarriages in the past 2 years. Since trying again after having him. Sorry about losing your daughter. I would have sued the dr. For not making sure baby was ok!

I am so sorry for your loss i also have loss two babies who were born fullterm. My first daughter and first son died shortly after birth

I have two grown children who are my life and have had over 10 miscarriages. I still feel the pain of losing my children and not a day goes by that i dont pray for a baby.

Mary

Ntokb,

So so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby girl.

Remember your heartbeat is the same heartbeat she heard for 37 weeks.

Big deep breaths my friend. Glad you found us.