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12/21/2010 08:17 PM
hopetobehappyagain
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I joined this group to gain the emotional support that I desperately need. I just experienced my 4th miscarriage in 3 years (not counting the two failed IVF experiences that I had this year). I'm over 40 so I totally get the fact that my chances of having a child are slim. However, I'm struggling to figure out why I get 7-10 weeks along before the miscarriage occurs. If I couldn't conceive at all, I would be devastated, but not as much as I am after having gone through this. It seems like a continuous cruel joke. I'm not sure how to get through this, especially when my fiance has wonderful children of his own from previous relationships. Even though he is very supportive, he will never know what it's like to never have a child. I've thought about adoption, but I'm not sure I can afford it at this time.
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12/22/2010 08:28 AM  Top
newrsd
 
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I am sorry..

Welcome.


12/23/2010 08:22 AM  Top
Snowi
Snowi
 
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hi hopetobehappyagain,

i am so sorry to hear u lost 4 babies. how very heart breaking. loosing one baby has been so hard. i am hear if u need someone to talk to. feel free to send me a pm-private message- if u want. i don't have a lot of answers but i can listen and offer support. take care.


12/30/2010 09:36 PM  Top
maryandjimmie
maryandjimmie
 
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hi hopetobehappyagain,

welcome to the group first off. Im so sorry you are having these miscarriages i know what you mean it seems like a cruel joke i have had alot of them also and none hurt less then the others and I also buried 2 right after birth. I am 46 and would do anything to have a baby again and i know my chances are slim to none but i refuse to give up hope. I know you feel lost and all alone but just know were here for you and would be very supportive. If you ever need to talk you can pm me anytime. I hope this helps mary

My mom use to say God dont like ugly and he aint to fond of pretty. Wow that speaks loudly to me.

What we go through in life dont dictate who we are going to be or who we are only we have the control over our lives to do that. Never give up and always follow your dreams.

I am not a doctor and my advice is purely from my own experiences. I will always be here for you all if you need me just pm me anytime.

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