Miscarriage Support Group

i am so frustrated with myself. my misscaraige was jan 22. my due date was july 6. i have done so many things to grieve. i am even in counselling. but the loss still hurts so much. and it is so hard to not think about. this weekend we were walking in a zoo. i thought it would be so nice to push jayden here, but jayden's an angel. ugh, ugh, ugh. and i still cry. i really don't know what else to do. why am i not better yet?

Stop! Take a few deep breaths....

It's ok to still be grieving and to still cry. When I see children the same age that Jessie or Kasey or Nathanael would have been...I get upset. When friends post ultrasound pics on facebook, or I see a family that looks like ours should (five kids...girls/boys) I get misty eyed.

In fact, last night I cried as I talked to my husband about some of it.

Don't be so hard on yourself or in a big hurry. You will heal at your own pace, and there may always be things that upset you or remind you of Jayden. It is just the way this works.