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09/01/2008 10:35
temeraire
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I was just diagnosed with SLE in May after over a year of horrible pain. I'm glad I finally know what it is, but now I'm getting a variety of responses from friends and family and I'm not sure what to think. Some people react to me like I'm dying, and the others act like it's nothing at all. They say, "Oh, I know someone with that and they're fine." Everyone knows someone with it, but I haven't met anyone to talk to about it.

I've been taking Plaquenil since May. I have good spells and bad spells. Right now I'm miserable. I understood (misunderstood?) from the dr and everyone else, that if I just take the Plaquenil, in 4 months I will feel like normal and stay that way. Cool - so it's been 4 months . . and? I'm also having tingling, numbing and weakness in my arms and legs - so much so that I drop what I'm holding, or my legs just collapse. It's usually accompanied with the other lupus symptoms. I went to my regular doctor, my rheumatologist and a neurologist and none of them know anything about it. They said it's probably the lupus. Have any of you experienced this or know anything about it. I'm really just kind of clueless, confused and overwhelmed with all of this. I just want to hear from someone who actually has it! Thank you!

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09/01/2008 15:14
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Hi,

I have central and peripheral nervous system lupus and I get the tingling in my feet legs and hands and its the nerves from what my rheumy and neurologist tells me. I am on neurontin which helps with the neuropathy in my feet which also causes tingling sensations. Talk with your doctors about this its called neuropathy. I hope this helps,

Eva

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09/01/2008 15:53
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Oh, finally, thank you! I looked up neuropathy and that's exactly what it feels like! Funny though. The neurologist actually gave me a prescription for Neurontin. He said he didn't know why I had the symptoms, but the medicine is useful for the symptoms. I actually didn't take any, because it made me nervous that he prescribed me medication and didn't know what was wrong with me, but sounds like it would help. This forum is great! My rheumy and my neurologist both said they hadn't heard of these symptoms with Lupus. I looked up neuropathy and lupus and neuropathy is listed as a fairly commonly (if anything is common with lupus) associated symptom. I feel better. I was worried I had something IN ADDITION to lupus. I can't handle anything else! My husband makes fun of me, because every time I feel bad he asks why, and I say it's just the lupus. I think sometimes he thinks I'm just saying that, but it really is true! Thank you, thank you, thank you!
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09/02/2008 13:23
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If you have any more questions please let us know and we will try to help. Some people just don't understand how we can look so good (except for the malar rash) and we feel so awful inside. I never explain myself to anybody because they wouldn't understand. When I feel really horrible I get real quiet and just go in my room and lay down. My family knows when I'm laying down that I don't feel well and they usually leave me alone. They help alot around the house. I have my husband and my 27 year old son and they will do the laundry cooking and shopping. I'm very fortunate. I also have my mom and my three sisters and they would do anything for me. The neurontin really does help with the neuropathy and I also have disasociate seizures and it's supposed to help with that. When I told my rheumatologist about these symptoms in 2001 she knew exactly what it was and so did my internist. In fact my internest is the one who perscribed the neurontin for the neuropathy and since that time I started getting the central nervous system lupus and also the seizures along with the two brain hemorrhages I've had. I sure hope this medicine helps you. Take Care,

Eva

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