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My sister and I have been estranged for 3 years. For the life of me I don't understand why we are fighting. The last time we spoke she brought up things that happened 20 years ago. Since then I have tried to avoid conflict and just stayed away. I recently found out my sister was diagnosed with lupus. I am concerned and worried about her health and her mental stability. I know that she must be feeling alone and vulnerable. Like I said before I don't understand her animosity towards me since I don't have any issues with her. I would love to reconcile and help her and be there for her. Here is my question: How can I approach her? I don't want to further complicate the situation. I want her to know that the past is the past and I want to move forward. Life is too short to be fighting and now that she has this diagnosis we should be a family again. What can I do or say? |
