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06/18/2008 17:55
amissmoses
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 So my husband is coming home from Iraq in two weeks. He just happened to say to his mom it will be a little funny that his sister is bringing her new born baby. His mom also was saying how badly my husband wants a baby and that she HOPES it works so I didn't apperciate that very much and I told her. I said I know it will work and we don't need negative attitudes! Well....that started a war! His sister start texting me asking why can't we be happy for her and I tried to expalin to her we were happy but it will be a little akward wanting some thing so badly and not having it easly.(She told me last time I saw her she was sorry she wasnt excited about her own baby and she didn't want it...it is her second one!) Well....she went on to be nasty to me and say that she hopes IVF doesn't work and that she will not be excited for me if it does! I just shut down and didn't answer her anymore. I just took it as her being 20 and immature. Is it wrong that we feel that way about her coming? I feel so hurt that someone would have the guts to say something so mean about her own baby and about me. This is her second baby and she isn't even 21 yet and living at home with her mom and dad. These kind of people make me sick and I really resent her for that. My husband is totally on my side but he really doesn't need all this in Iraq. I guess I need someone to talk to or just to hear my story...that's all!
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06/18/2008 19:15
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 I had the somewhat the same thing happen to me. My sister n law is pregnant. And after she invited me to her baby shower I had to deny it. Well she was furious. She said some bad things to me like I was so jeo. of her and that she didnt knew it was competition etc. It really hurted me but then I found out how people really feel about you when you down and out. She couldnt understand why I couldnt come. I guess she fail to realize how hard its been for us and how she keep rubbing it in my face that she was pregnant. So I say, Forget them...You have a right to feel however you choses too. It's hard.

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06/19/2008 18:28
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 my quick solution is i dont attend baby showers...period!!!


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06/20/2008 10:32
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 Good news we made up but I still resent her for it and I will never foget what she said! She is shelfish and thank God I live in Georgia and they live in Arkansas. When I do have a baby or babies she won't get to see them but once a year so that makes me feel a whole lot better! I don't want selfish...immmature...cold hearted people around my kids because I want my kids to have a good heart and really care about people like I do! I can't wait to start IVF! Only a month and 3 weeks left before we start! Only 12 days until my husband comes home safely from Iraq! I have so much to be thankful for! Today is the one year anniversery of us losing 3 of our friends over there! So pray for my best friend who lost her husband! It has been really hard on everyone...especially her! It really makes you think what is important in your life when you see other people hurting and my infertility is nothing compaired to what she is going thru! So I am very thankful for my husband being able to come home and we get to do this together!
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06/20/2008 19:20
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 I will pray that your husband comes home safely...and i also hope that your bestfriend finds the strength to get through this.

Good luck on the IVF...


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