|
Peace4Rach Posts: 8879
VIP Member
|
Goodness, I have so many fantasies other than my spouse. I'm embarrassed to write this. It would truely hurt his feelings but I fantasize about many male TV stars, they way that look. It's a sexual attration with their physical appearance. I think of having sex with these people. I don't have much sex with my husband for different reasons. We are tired alot, both work, have two kids. My husband is not that physically attrative to me. He's overweight and is greying. I am overweight too but focusing on loosing weight. I asked him if he would loose weight too because being over 40, so many health risks. He acts like he don't care. He won't even dye his hair for me. I try so hard to look good for him and he don't seem to care. I relly love him as a person on the inside but not that physically attrated to him. I like men like Russel Crowe, Eric Banna and Viggo Mortensen. I can't help the fantasies. How wrong is this? I could hop into the mud with this man right now.   Having the courage to walk step by step each day.
May the road rise up to meet you
May the wind always be on your back.
May the sun lie warm upon your face.
And until we meet again,
May the Lord hold you
In the hollow of His hand.
Im loving memory of my mom, 2007: My hero, The Wind Beneath My Wings
Peace4Rach-Bereavement and Depression Group Leader
PS: I am one of you and hurt too. Not a medical doctor, so be sure to check with a professional for medical or expert advice.
|
That's a good one your neighbor. Gosh there are plenty I could think of daily. It's certain physical attributes that attract me to the opposite sex. In men it's seeing their biceps, and athletic body, jeans and tee, or good fitting suit,, men in uniform and just a masculine type looking man, with nice eyes and a smile and good sense of humor high on my list.
