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08/11/2008 13:22
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Quite some time ago, I came across this. I stumbled upon it again today and thought you might enjoy reading it.

MY NAME IS FIBROMYALGIA

My Name is Fibromyalgia, and I'm an Invisible Chronic Illness. I am now velcroed to you for life. Others around you can't see me or hear me, but YOUR body feels me. I can attack you anywhere and anyhow I please. I can cause severe pain or, if I'm in a good mood, I can just cause you to ache all over.

Remember when you and Energy ran around together and had fun? I took Energy from you, and gave you Exhaustion. Try to have fun now! I also took Good Sleep from you and, in its place, gave you Brain Fog. I can make you tremble internally or make you feel cold or hot when everyone else feels normal. Oh, yeah, I can make you feel anxious or depressed, too.

If you have something planned, or are looking forward to a great day, I can take that away, too. You didn't ask for me. I chose you for various reasons: That virus you had that you never recovered from, or that car accident, or maybe it was the years of abuse and trauma. Well, anyway, I'm here to stay!

I hear you're going to see a doctor who can get rid of me. I'm rolling on the floor, laughing. Just try. You will have to go to many, many doctors until you find one who can help you effectively.

You will be put on pain pills, sleeping pills, energy pills, told you are suffering from anxiety or depression, given a TENs unit, get massaged, told if you just sleep and exercise properly I will go away. Told to think positively, poked, prodded, and MOST OF ALL, not taken as seriously as you feel when you cry to the doctor how debilitating life is every day.

Your family, friends and coworkers will all listen to you until they just get tired of hearing about how I make you feel, and that I'm a debilitating disease. Some of them will say things like "Oh, you are just having a bad day" or "Well, remember, you can't do the things you use to do 20 YEARS ago", not hearing that you said 20 DAYS ago. Some will just start talking behind your back, while you slowly feel that you are losing your dignity trying to make them understand, especially when you are in the middle of a conversation with a "Normal" person, and can't remember what you were going to say next!

In closing, (I was hoping that I kept this part a secret), but I guess you already found out. . . the ONLY place you will get any support and understanding in dealing with me is with Other People With Fibromyalgia.

"When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place." ~Unknown

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08/11/2008 15:06
Auntie3285
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Hi Amy ...

This is just great !!! I m printing it out as I reply. Thank you !!!

I know I won t be the only one ....

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08/11/2008 15:29
Janilee
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Amy that's great, thanks for sharing it with us.

Hugs

Jan

May your troubles be less, Your blessings be more. And nothing but happiness come through your door!
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08/11/2008 16:57
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oh my this made me cry.. so did the other poem boards.. it hit the nail on the head.. i am truely not nuts. thank you

Jane

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10/07/2008 16:23
homesickgranny
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WOW someone , can't remember who, gave me the same poem about 5 years ago and it so describes that monster we know as Fibro.

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10/08/2008 04:48
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I wish I could print it out to put on a tshirt and make a print for the wall... maybe then more ppl will take a hint.
"A pearl is a beautiful thing that is produced by an injured life. It is the tear [that results] from the injury of the oyster. The treasure of our being in this world is also produced by an injured life. If we had not been wounded, if we had not been injured, then we will not produce the pearl."




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10/08/2008 07:43
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Oh my gosh you hit the nail on the head! I looked online for some tshirts, sweatshirts, etc for me and my family to wear to support fibormyalgia awareness and the only ones I found that I liked were like 30 dollars and the proceeds didn't go to research anyways. So I am taking my favorite sayings and having them printed on shirts or whatever I find to give out to friends and family to raise awareness. I was going to tell you guys all about it when I got the idea.... but then I forgot. you know how it goes. So I am going to get the shirts this weekend from the outlet stores and then will price the printing and I bet it's not very much. So you figure 10 bucks or so for the plain t-shirts and them not very much for the printing. So I may spend 30 dollars but instead of one shirt I get many!!! Oh and I forgot to mention that I am getting one that says Fibro Fighter on the back and I will never stop fighting for a cure on the front. I like it.

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