rockmygypsysoul
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You never know, we sometimes dont give men enough credit!  I met this guy and got sick two months later. We didnt know what it was and kept thinking it would go away and I'd get better. I told him we should wait to get married - he didn't want to. We got married and a few months later I was diagnosed with FM, Sjogren's Syndrome, and TMJ. I told him I'd let him out - I felt like a car that broke down being driven off the lot! - but he said no way in the world.My husband has really bad anxiety also. I think for us, we balance each other out even better now - I was super-social and high energy and he really struggled with doing anything public or social and always wanted to stay in. Heavens, even our sex life suffered because he had to not be feeling any anxiety and I always was in the mood! Now with all this, I have to stay at home a lot and don't want to do the things I used to love. It's all about finding a match for you - not only your personality and values, but also your lifestyle. Be honest with any guy you're considering and I'm sure eventually you'll find one (or two or three or four!) who are willing to make it work because it puts the two of you on even more of the same page!! Good luck!! |
