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02/07/2008 08:23
desertmom54
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 Tomorrow Im going in for surgery, Im haveing a Basal Cell Carcinoma taken off my nose, There is so much drama going on here at home. The house we live in we thought we were buying it, but I guess we arent, Hubbys aunt we thought was selling us the house and 2 trailers on land, we found out about 4 days ago when she had Centry 21 put for sale signs up on all 3 proprties, we went and talked to a Lawyer and because she didnt put it all down on the lease she can get away with it, you see she moved form here to Oregon and was going to add all the info on the contract and then send the contract well she did but with nothing on it,then they came and said we owed $500.00 , we had to borrow the money to pay her this, But we have dedcided to move anyway, I wont live here knowing I will have to go through this anymore. So as you know Im flareing like crazy right now and I have my surgery tomorrow, Plus I found out the other night that my son has a student loan that has to be paid and they want to garnish my SSI check . I dont remeber signing any loan for him for school.I have contacted my son and he said well If your name is on it you have to pay it, excuse me I didnt sign a darn thing. then two nights ago someone broke into my car and tried to steal it, cant get the key to turn in the ignition and I need it to go to Las Cruces for my surgery . Im hurting so bad right now that my morphine isnt touching the pain. Im about to scream and pull my hair out, I have spent all week crying and I just havent got an answer for anything anymore. (MOM)
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02/07/2008 08:55
sweetheartsuzee
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 Ohhhhhhhhhh shoot!

I'm sorry you're going through such a bad time! Like I always say..."Does it EVER end?"

Is there any way you can just go into a room and shut your mind down for a bit? Wow honey...you've got a lot going on. I think it would be good for you if you could just 'sit and stare'. Don't think about anything. No pain, no aunt, no surgery, no drive, no student loan, no flare, no flare, no flare! Turn your brain off...that's what I do when I get soo overwhelmed. I just have to.

HEY...you're not driving yourself are you?!?!?! Gosh, I hope not!

Maybe you could/should re-schedule your surgery for another time...ya know...after you get your ignition fixed in your car?!?!

Please take care of yourself and pm me if you wanna talk.

I'm here...

{{{{Fibro Hugs}}}}

~Suzee~
Only YOU can control your thoughts...
SO...
Change your thoughts and CHANGE YOUR LIFE!!!
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02/07/2008 09:12
Mydragonfly
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 Wow, I wish I could help in some way. I try and use aroma therapy as much as I can. I keep a bag of lavender by my computer. The smell is relaxing. Something for you to try.

You need to talk to someone. I did not think they could garnish SS. They may be tring to scare you into paing. I am not sure. But please look into that.

I am here if you need to talk.

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02/07/2008 15:46
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 Ohhh I am so sorry to hear all that you are going through. I agree with Mydragonfly I don't think they can garnish SSI but not sure what the law is in your state. I would check that out. Just try to relax,go somewhere quiet and don't think about anything. Try a hot bath or just lying down in a dark room. PM me if you need someone to talk to or just rant and rave to.

Pillowy soft hugs and my prayers for you.

May life always bring you laughter.
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