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Hi everyone, I am Suzee's husband. She's been on my case for a bit to come to the site that she loves so much and write something. So, here I am. Well, she really didn't have to be on my case about it. I've been going to...just haven't until lately. She's been kind of down due to some misfortune on the site so I thought now would be a good time for me to visit. She tells me a lot about how bad she feels for people with this that don't have a spouse that cares. What? How could you not care? When she told me that...I really couldn't understand it. It makes no sense to me anyhow. I married my wife because I love her. Not because she did the dishes or kept a spotless house. Because she's her...and I love her! I may pick up a lot of slack when it comes to certain things, but isn't that what a marriage, companionship, friendship and love is all about? I don't know, maybe I'm missing something here. So, all I really want to say is this: If you are married or have a 'partner' (as she calls it) that has Fibromyalgia...I don't see how you can love them any less. It would only be right to love them more! They hurt, they're depressed and they want to do everything that they can for and with us. If they can't....SO WHAT! They can't help it but we can help them by reading about it, asking questions if we have them and learning as we go. That's what I've done anyhow and I couldn't be happier with the one I married. I don't know if she's told you or not, but we've been married 3 months and have only known each other for 9 months. I didn't know what 'Fibro' was until I met her and still...I'll never regret that I saved the one marriage of my life for her. Please, give your spouse your love and kindness. Not only when they need it but all of the time. My wife is worth it...isn't yours? Thanks for listening and I can't wait to hear what all of you say about me. Oh, I sure can't wait! LOL |
"MDJunction to me is a life saver... when i first was diagnosed with Scheuermann's Disease i wrote a message to a page i found on google, hoping that they could help me.... you'd never know it but that weird feeling (you know that one where it feels like someone actually cares) came over me when i opened my email next day to find that someone on the other side of the world (at the American Medical Library)had read my message while i was sleeping, and there low and behold was the address to MDJunction.... well it is everything to me, i live it breathe it and love it!!!!! I have found many people who are struggling with similar issues banding together to help each other. It is the best place in the world, and i couldn't think of another place to go to meet so many lovely people....
