Thanks for the welcome! Ok, another thing that gets me in trouble besides my strange sense of humor is my candor. Snoopy, my advice to you is... Kick his butt! In general us guys are oblivious and stupid when it comes to women, much less recognize and react to whatever your needs might be. I had to get a swift boot to the rear quite a few times from the wife but once I "got it" I knew what had to be done. Of course my wife also taught me how to communicate. Without constantly talking to each other her condition would consume her mentally as well as physically. Now I can tell when she's pushing herself to far (Stop cleaning and sit down!) or about to eat something she shouldn't (Aren't you glad we didn't hit Burger King now?) Anyway, if your husband is like every other guy out there... he'll need to get smacked around a bit. I'm sure you know his motivations so find a way to get him to read about Fibro. And I'm sure there are other ways you can "persuade" him...  Vanshadsyd, I can relate! My wife has made me insane too! Oh, wait... you said the opposite. And honey, I told you I was normal... it just takes a complete stranger to recognize that.  Life is like a sewer. What you get out of it depends on what you put into it. - Tom Lehrer |
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